Ask stupid questions.
2006-06-27 06:26:47
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answer #1
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answered by david s 4
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When a man acts like he own you once you are dating. By that, I mean that you have to include him in everything you do, he maybe tries to tell you who you can and can't be friends with, etc.
Also, a couple girls have said "when he's insensitive" and I'll elaborate on that:
If we're being emotional, do not ever say "she's raggin'" or something equally as gross (and insensitive all at once). Please take a minute to listen, then give her a big, long hug. That helps a lot, even if you don't hardly understand what we just said.
Also, if you don't understand something we say - we're making a big deal about something [that seems like nothing to you] maybe figure out why it's a big deal to us. Maybe there is more than you can see, maybe we need you to ask a question so that we can explaine better.
Either way, if you even SEEM like you're trying to understand, we'll give you points for it. You don't have to advise or anything, just listen and try to understand, and then give a hug.
Sorry. I just added way more crap than just 'turn-offs' - hopefully it helps somebody.
2006-06-27 13:35:45
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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Bragging about how big they are when usually they are small. Not knowing the difference between sex and making love. Not knowing how to be interesting in and out of the bedroom. Disrespecting women with that b word when they have been rejected. Being cheap and insensitive to issues in the world that influence everyone not only women and children. For example child care, parenting, rape and sexual assault and equality for women and all. I'm sure a series of books could be written about this topic. And finally war, fighting and killing which hurt all.
2006-06-27 13:31:18
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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For me the biggest turnoff is when a man is trying to pretend to be something he is not. For instance when you meet him and he pretends to be a romantic and passionate, caring guy, and then in reality he is really a guy who prefers to think of his needs above all others. I think a person should be themselves from the beginning and not try to put on a front to impress people, if you like a person for themselves from the beginning you have a much stronger base for a relationship than a phony base to try to build something from.
2006-06-27 13:52:47
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answer #4
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answered by s b 1
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I hate a man that act as if you some time not even there. Or maybe just want to hang out with guys all the time.
2006-06-27 13:34:14
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answer #5
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answered by wanna know 1
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Not listening to us, cheating on us, not brushing your teeth, staring at other women, being full of themselfs, lying to us, having hair hanging out of your nose, acting like you are God's gift to us, smelling, I'm sure there are many more, but I have to go.
2006-06-27 13:31:19
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answer #6
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answered by wishiwereatthebeach 3
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Major bodily functions that should be done in private, farting, belching (at least say excuse me), scratching, rearranging parts, poor hygiene, lying.
2006-06-27 13:31:51
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answer #7
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answered by dixie_til_i_die 5
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look at other women who pass by longer than they should, tell dumb lies that make no sense, walk around smelly, not cleaning up after themselves in the bathroom, drinking out of the carton, not taking care of their teeth.
2006-06-27 13:33:09
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answer #8
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answered by doyalikethatdaddy 3
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whine, name drop, act like there something theyre not. Being nice and treating a lady like a lady should be top on their list.
2006-06-27 13:28:55
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answer #9
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answered by Anonymous
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Burp in public, fart in public, wear sandals or penny loafers on their feet, and long beards are all my turn offs!
2006-06-27 13:36:31
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answer #10
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answered by cstinkerbell6969 6
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I hate it when men try to cook or clean or do laundry/dishes. That is my place to do that for him. My boyfriend never does that.
2006-06-27 13:29:14
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answer #11
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answered by Pirate_Wench 5
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