I know is wrong to have sex before marriage, and you probaby shouldn't make out either? But what about back rubbing? Sometimes I like to rub my girlfriend's back and it feels *really* good. She always keeps her shirt on. It's not really sexual, but it is pretty sensual? Do you think that's going too far?
2006-06-27 06:20:09 · 21 answers · asked by Texas Toast 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
depends whats in your mind, sin is based on thought and intent, not what you actually do.
2006-06-27 06:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kenny ♣ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude, it's a backrub...don't look too far into it. As long as you don't start rubbing other things and lead into other acts, you're okay. And "making out" isn't bad either. I'm sure God would rather you do that than have sex before marriage. It's just kissing only more intense. I think you're being pretty safe.
2006-06-27 06:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by bluejacket8j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a massage therapist and find that a massage is both normal and paranormal. The benefits of "laying" hands to heal is a beautiful gift, a spiritual experience and one not to be taken as a source of perversion. I, as in the past, am sure that some one will email me about my non-christian ways. They are right, I have no religious beliefs, They are All right. The funny thing is, I know Catholic nuns who also find the healing in it. Peace and Love
2006-06-27 06:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by digilook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, making out before marriage is fine, so is a back rub. Even sex is fine, if you think that you want to marry this person. You don't want to be tuck your entire life with a bad kisser or someone who is bad in bed.
2006-06-27 06:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by valkyrie hero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Dear don't fall prey to the deciever's tricks, he has decieved Eve, as well.
firt you will start rubbing than little further and so on finaly you will fall prey to the desires of the flesh. JESUS VERY CLEARLY tells us Mt 5:28 -
"But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart."
2006-06-27 06:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by raja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is based not only by the actions of the body but the intent of the heart. Sice we as Christians cannot be of impure heart or body, it unfortunately is still lust. We have to learn to control our thoughts to be above sin, not just our bodies.
2006-06-27 06:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by bigvol662004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be the judge of that.
You know that when you are attracted to someone, touch is electric.
Get married ... then you won't have to worry about it.
If you are too young to get married, then you should end the relationship.
2006-06-27 06:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by Red-dog-luke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK ITS ALL ABOUT WHAT UR THINKING ABOUT WHEN SHES DOING THIS. THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH A MASSAGE, AS LONG AS THATS AS FAR AS IT GOES. IF UR THINKING SEXUAL THOUGHTS, U PROBABLY MIGHT WANT TO DO SOMETHING ELSE. JUST "THINKING" ABOUT LUSTING IN GOD'S EYES IS LUSTING. BE CAREFUL.
CASEY
2006-06-27 06:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by Casey M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that anyting that you do fully clothed is fine. I think kissing is ok, so long as it doesn't go to far.
2006-06-27 06:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you're cool. But like the others said.....if you're undressing her in your mind you might as well be doing it. That's a difficult one for me. lol.
2006-06-27 06:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by Pete El Pirata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to do what feels right. lust is thinking bad things...and then possibly doing them. if you love her, and you arent thinking things you shouldnt then you have nothing to worry about. have fun, but do what feels right.
2006-06-27 06:25:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋