For some believe it or not it can be some kind of secret fetish, maybe she is trying to tell you something, but think about it, I mean really think about it, why would she want to make you fat.
Why now? Why all of sudden she goes "Baby I want you fat,''
Not fit, not built but fat. Come on...
Ask yourself this question: Was she fat before and lost all the weight and she wants you to be in her shoes, and see what it was like for her. Dude if that is the case then walk around in a fat suite and see it from that perspective.
You know as a matter of fact get that suit and see what society has to say about that.
I smell danger, danger for your health and well being.
You want her to 'force feed' you?
I hate to say this but society is hard on full / big people, no acceptance, none whatsoever. You can see the distaste in there faces... I would know, I was once obese, but with the help of personal friends my doctor and the gym I can say I fit nicely in a size 16.
Don't do it, you want to live longer, you want to be happy, you want to live happy, then tell her HELL TO THE NO.
2006-06-27 06:41:57
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answered by qemme0125 3
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"she made it?" does that mean, she made it to a goal of being obese? if this is what you mean; then my guess is, she feels so uncomfortable and alone, that she may want to bring you along, so that she feels that there is still a level of equality between the two of you. she proubably also feels scared and volnurable because she is so large and you are so "normal" if there is such a thing; but you get where I am coming from. She needs someone to talk to about this matter. She needs to change her way of thinking, to a point where "she is becoming healthier" you are not becoming more unhealthy.
also, my guess (and I could be wrong here), is not that she went on the site because she "wanted" to become fat; but because she was already becoming fat; and needed something that she could anchor her emotions in. She wanted to find a "reason" for her weight, so to speak; an excuse. I would have to say that you have one emotionally hurting girlfriend there. Be supportive any way that you can and maybe between the two of you (although the only one that can ultimately save yourself is "you") something wonderful and healing can come out of this. maybe even a chance for better communication between the both of you! good luck to both of you!
2006-06-27 13:43:01
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answered by amber 5
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Sounds a little sick to me. Being fat presents a lot of health problems. If she cared about you she wouldn't want you to get fat.
You might want to think about whether this is the sort of person with whom you really want a relationship.
2006-06-27 13:23:20
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answered by Dave R 6
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um why, that is really weird, does she want you to be unhealthy or something? tell her that you dont wanna make in more posibly for you to be at risk for all the health problems that can come from being over weight.
2006-06-27 13:30:44
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answered by lolo l 1
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no, I dont think I have to search into it, I think she has problems and wants you to look bad than her. Tell her if she wants somebody fat, to get it somewere alse. !! If she dumps you then shes nuts!!
2006-06-27 13:26:20
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answered by Anonymous
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thats sick
2006-06-27 13:23:49
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answered by Anonymous
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