I seriously do not understand, you hear so many stories of date rape and other forms of rape, having had some sexual experiences myself, i dont understand how you can possible have sex without lubrication and arousal, not to mention having the female fighting you. Do you think many of the date rape stories you hear are more the female being aroused but not necessarily giving consent?
2006-06-27 06:15:20 · 27 answers · asked by rjax79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rape happens. Every two and a half minutes, somewhere in America, someone is sexually assaulted. it happens. It happened to me.
2006-06-28 19:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by dani 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋
yes it is very possible, a woman does not need to be lubricated, and these men get aroused from the involuntary nature of the act, and as per the fighting, i would imagine the rapist isn't trying to rape a powerhouse, only those whom he believes are subduable. however i have wondered that question about women raping men. if I were being raped i do not how they could get me "aroused".
2006-06-27 06:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by iconoclast_ensues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, well it happens, bud. Yeah...you think it's impossible to have intercourse without lubrication.....well it's not comfortable, but it's possible. And painful, I bet. The girl is obviously not aroused when she's being held down with a gun or knife in her face and the guy is telling you not to scream or he'll kill you. I don't think that the stories I hear are of willing women.....it's just not. I am close with several girls who have been there, and it just tears you up, you know? It's hard to believe, but it's out there and it's scary!
2006-06-27 06:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, basically, you are one of the biggest idiots ever. that is why it is called rape. obviously, the girl wasn't aroused and that is why there was no lubrication. he just shoved it in. and as for her fighting around, that is why there is tearing or the "date rape drug." so no, i don't think that they get aroused if they really didn't want it. i guess in the way of males, they kind of have to get aroused, otherwise it wouldn't work, but over all, stupid question.
2006-06-27 06:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by nycoll1872 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape is very much real and very very damaging to a woman physically as well as mentally! The reason they end up with tears in their vagine aftyer rape is because he forced his way in with no lubrication. Woudlnt surprise me if the **** head spit first! This act is done only by a complete coward who likes to control women who r smaller than they are! If they had to fight a real man then they would never win! Men are much stronger than woman by a long shot so struggling doesnt do much good
2006-06-27 06:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually having a friend who was raped, I have to say it is possible. I'd think, using enough force, it is possible. It is an extreme case of violence, so huring the person wasn't even a concern for the assailant. I can tell you, she neither concented to it, nor did she enjoy it.
There are even gay rapes. You know, there is natural lubricant involved. That shows it IS possible.
What made you pose such a question?
2006-07-03 09:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible. if u r not able to imagine it, it just means that u r normal person, but there r people (i mean those who commit rapes), who r aroused by struggle and by the pain victim feels.
in terms of fighting u can threat her, u can tighr her, she maybe so afraid that stays calm (it's kind of psychological phenomena, shock).
in terms of lubrication. as far as u know penis has its own lubrication and it can be enough for the man commiting rape to penetrate and then... it goes. what is more if woman is mechanically aroused by moving of the penis (i mean lubrication), but she did not want and still in her mind do not want this intercourse, it is still rape.
but of course there r cases, especially with the date and marriage rapes, when women just cause situation themselves or lie in order to "punish" their partner. it is very complicated.
but it happens. and it's very hard for the victim.
2006-06-27 06:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by saxa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date rape is when u drug the girl. she doesnt know whats going on and she wont remember what happened. so it is possible. date rape drugs make the victim feel out of it i guess u could say. ppl put the drug in the persons drink,it devolves quickly and it doesnt have a taste. so when they go to rape the person they cant fight. a victim of rape can be a boy or a girl not just a girl.
2006-06-27 06:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't belive there are idiots in this world like you. If your daughter/ mother or a woman you cared about said they were raped would you question them? It's people like you that make rape victems afraid to tell becasue they are afraid noone will believe them. You can't fathem the fear that are in these woman who have been raped---then can rape someone without lubrication----the woman can get torn from it----
I am wondering who you are trying to cover up for or make feel better after assulting a woman---or why you wouldn't believe a woman.
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr people like you make me sick!
2006-06-28 15:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this matter is simply a case of the the girl of saying no despite being aroused or not and it happening anyway against her will. Even if she mentions the word no and does not fight you because she is scared or doesn't really no what she is doing please still take the no seriously. if you ever hear the word no or she pushes you away. stop immedialtely.
2006-06-27 06:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by RACHAEL R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, rufies are becoming more and more popular unfortunately. As far as other cases go, there are other ways to lubricate and many women would be so scared it would be hard to fight back against someone much stronger.
2006-06-27 06:19:25 · answer #11 · answered by BillyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋