little fight, and im the one who messed up.. iv been tryn 2 4ne him bt hes ignoring my calls.. i really love this guy to bits... should i gve hm tym or i shud move on wit ma lyf.. plz help
2006-06-27 06:09:46 · 15 answers · asked by hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u really lyk go 4 him bt if he still ignores u jus leave him gurl, no man is worth any girl's trouble if he is meant for u he'll come back running.
2006-06-27 06:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by XXxxFaNtAsIcxxXX 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A threefold strategy, beginning with also giving time- at least a bit- and you'll see how easy things get.
By allowing some space in the immediate aftermath, you will first bring down his defense mechanism and internal psychological structure will ease. Then, he will wonder what happened- and curiosity will kick in- because you are deviating from expected behavior in his projection.
Here, the third component will come to play- the chance for him to show if he really cares. If he does, then he should get back within a day or two.
The diffitculty of this for you, is the ability to try to take your mind off and try to resist the temptation to call, or to think. You will probably be unable to think about much else, but believe me if you can do this, then it'll be to your benefit, also for your future relationships and personal life.
Good luck, no matter how it turns out. Be strong, utilize the nature's way.
2006-06-27 06:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by Discover7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just playin hard 2 get. He knows it was ur fault that's why he's ignorin ur calls to see if u know that too.
And he probably just wants 2 see if ur concerned enuf 2 keep callin till he picks just 2 apologise.
I think u shd give him time while tryin 2 reach him a few more times.
It's the "i'm very important" factor. Just give it 2 him and he'll get over it.
2006-06-27 07:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by damselville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a zimbabwean living in ireland.get a life move on there are many more fish in the sea.
2006-06-27 06:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not on your mobile texting your mate. not every can understand what you are say unless you write it properly insteed of putting 4ne type the word phone it not hard and make it easy for everybody else
2006-06-27 07:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah no give him time he will come around most boys and men like to get loads of attention off you too actually find out you reaaly want them... i know from experience he is only feeling sorry for himself but will come around... good luck
2006-06-27 06:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get him back if you love him that much. Honey if it is meant to be than it will work. If it wasn't meant to be than you'll know. Trust me on this one.
2006-06-27 06:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by bddrex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a bit of time any if you really love this guy keep trying
2006-06-27 06:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by ALAN B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him
2006-06-27 06:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by ONE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time.
2006-06-27 06:13:18 · answer #10 · answered by riotgerrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋