My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months he is a very kind gentelman. We have told each other i love you. How do i know if this will last. He is everything i need and ever wanted. Is this real love.
2006-06-27 05:58:17 · 13 answers · asked by crazed cats 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After 2 months you may just be infatuated with each other. This is often mistaken for love. Do you know a lot about this person? Have you been able to talk about personal things? Or have you just spent some time together and had fun? My opinion on love is genuinely wanting to do whatever you can for someone without expecting anything in return just because it will help them or make them happy.
2006-06-27 06:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by BillyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell. If you are still together in 10 years time and still very happy...it was real love.
Love is a thing that does take time...day by day you know more about each other and come to a decision, each step of the way, about you individually feel about the other.
Lust is more sympathetic...and is urgent, unsatiable. Love is more gentle and refined. Lust is what takes you to those deeper feelings so a lot is required in the beginning (but not necessarily given in to).
Love is family and the familiar. If you both get what you need from being with each other, it will last. If you dont, it wont. Enjoy what you have now, day-by-day, and see how it goes? Stop pre-empting a relationship because its a waste of time.
2006-06-27 13:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months is probably not long enough (but it could be). How old are you? If you are still young (under 20), then don't push it or force it. You will know when you are in love. Think about everything as a whole. Like does he have little things he does that bother you? Could you live with them? I don't think you can know if you love someone for sure until you've lived with them. HE has to be ready and willing to do the things for you that you would do for him.
Talk about your future(s) with himand see how far in the future he sees you all being together.
2006-06-27 13:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by Diamonds_4Ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ask these question?
God!
Just enjoy it! Be happy and love each other.
I am married and I do not if it's going to last all my life ( I mean, you never know - and that's just the way life is: there's no guarantee for anything. We just have to take it and live with it. Or take it and not care about this fact - because there's nothing we can do!)
2006-06-27 13:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by 123321m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is like a sickness, the more of it you feel the less you want to be away from this person, if it is let your 2 months become as many as possible. Good Luck.
2006-06-27 13:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by i.needitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that you love a person only after two months, because that feeling comes with time. Of course, I am sure you have strong feelings for him, but love comes with time... If you are ready to spend all your life with that person knowing all his bad qualities and if you know that he is your man and your person that is love.
2006-06-27 13:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by Gyte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the sun shine brighter? Does the rain smell sweeter? Does his touch make you tingle? Do the birds sing sweeter? Do your taste buds jump? Your senses are heightened and everything is multiplied with joy...this is love. You don't know if it will last, no one does. It's just one of the bittersweet pills we have to swallow if we choose to love.
2006-06-27 13:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by dixie_til_i_die 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know in your heart if it is love, the one time i felt i was truly in love the closest thing i can give you to how i felt was i found a peice of my soul i didn't know was missing.
2006-06-27 13:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by Pandora Tommorow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll know if it's true love. if all u think about is him. if you're always saying to yourself i want to marry him. and every time you are with him you just smile like he knows exactly how you're feeling. believe me if you don't know now you'll soon know if you are truly in love
2006-06-27 13:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by bugs_bunny001us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are wondering if you really are in love...that means you are NOT.
and two months?? do you even know his middle name at that point.
2006-06-27 13:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by AreYouForReal? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋