i have been going with my boyfriend for more than 2 months. i have strong felling for him. But ever since he moved to another part of town i hardly see him, he barely call. i don't know what i should do. But i wont believe he's cheating on me.
2006-06-27 05:45:59 · 49 answers · asked by Ms. Ceazer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're getting paranoid over assumptions. taht's Mistake number 1. secondly , does this guy share the same feelings for you ? if yes then you need to make this work girl, whatt u need to do atleast is :
a)make the extra effort
b) we're living in the 21st century, IM him, call him , SMS him , send him flowers
c) pay him a visit , surprise him , gift him something he's always wanted
you got to remind him that even though you two are far apart you're still very much together.
and if none of this works.....then you deserve someone else far more special and appreciative of your relationship.
all the best
2006-06-27 05:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by dxb 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds as if he is getting on with his life, a life without you. It is hard to let go, especially when you really care. It is harder for women to let go because the prospect of having no one is to hard for some to deal with. Why would you want to be with someone that does not have the time or the inclination to put himself in this relationship.
Sometimes separation makes the heart grow fonder but usually it is just the opposite. I suggest you get on with living your life and stop worrying about him. You will find it gets easier over time. if you two are meant to be together than this act alone will make him look at you in a different light and he might just rethink what he has done to you and most importantly what he lost by his action. Either way you will be the winner, with or without him you will still be living life to the fullest not setting home wondering what he is doing or when he is going to call. Good Luck
2006-06-27 05:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by joejo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a long distance relationship & I did everything to make it work ( for four years!)
In the end the guy ended up be a selfish creep & I ended the relationship
I am now very happy . I have a great guy for a husband
and a great son too.
Move on with your life, it will be better in the long run !
P.S. Why did he move away from you if he realy loves you & why won't he call if he cares?
2006-06-27 05:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont take this the wrong way love but come on wake up and smell the coffee honey he's a bloke and anyway i know that seemed but harsh but believe me sometimes thats the best way as i know how you feel it happened to me when i was a little younger and i really liked the kiddy that i was with and i was with him for 7 months before he moved only 1 and a half miles up the road but he never called text or bothered to come and see me anymore yet we were never apart before he moved so after about two weeks of him not bothering to come see me answer calls or texts etc etc i decided that it was time to sort things out myself so i walked up to his new place (i remember it like it was yesterday-this was on a sunday afternoon just after dinner) but when i got there he was out his mum asked me to come in and said he'd popped to the shop and would be back any minuite now but she had also said how shocked she was to see me after what had happened between me and her son,and of course i didnt know what she was talking about so i told her exactly what had really been happening and after about half hourish of me and her chatting about this he came walking into the lounge hand in hand with the girl from three doors up from his new place,it broke my heart but i dont know how i done it but i managed to keep it all in and ask him in a sivalised manor if he would come outside and have a quick chat about something and i told him straight(i dont really want to go into what i said and his excuses really).
But basically you need to either go see him or get hold of him some how and ask him straight whats going on and wether or not he is with you anymore or not!.
I hope you dont find what i found or anything worse either.
GOOD LUCK
oh and i do think you should talk to him and find out what has been happening before deciding wether or not to leave him just yet.
2006-06-27 06:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by muncher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't take the time to see or call you, leave the relationship. It's only been two months so there's not much time invested in the relationship yet. Break up and find someone who's willing to invest some time into you and a relationship.
2006-06-27 05:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by Dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's moving on, and you need to as well. Its hard to face you've got to move on with your life without someone you have strong feelings for, but sadly he may not have the same strong feelings for you that will help provide the relationship glue that distance apart from each other needs.
2006-06-27 05:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by aliantha2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will why don't you call him and see if you guys can do something!! Or unless he is cheating on you with a another woman than I say dump him. but it's up to you just make your mind up. But if you been with him for 2 or more months will than maybe he isn't ready to call you yet or maybe he is really busy and don't have time to call you.
2006-06-27 05:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by doreen j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's not calling you or making an effort to get togethert then chances are it's not going to work out. But try calling him and asking what he wants to do with the relationship, that way you both get to put in an opinoin about how it's going to work out.
2006-06-27 05:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Action and reaction are equal and opposite.
Whether you are moving with him for days and months or not.
It is his duty to call you back wherever he is.
Did you call him. Then call him. Listen what he tells you.
Then allow him some time. wait. If he ignores you. Do the same.
That is the end of it. If he is a egoistic person, you can't do anything.
Ego begets ego.
2006-06-27 05:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't a matter of if he is cheating on you or not, the problem is he doesn't care enough to make time for you in his life. If a man can't make time for you then he doesn't love you the way you deserve and you should move on.
2006-06-27 05:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋