2006-06-27 05:25:43 · 25 answers · asked by tasgilla 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, no man is worth moving for. If your happy with your current living situation, stay! If you wanna move to make him happy, why are you even getting back with him? You obviously broke up for a reason. Stick to your guns and dont make any decision based around him.
2006-06-27 05:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by April T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, I think getting back together with an ex is a bad deal unless you have resolved why you EX'ed in the first place. Please do this and work through issues prior to moving in with each other. It is important that you not rush into a living situation where real-world things can come up demanding mature together decisions be made. Secondly, do not make life decisions just to make someone else happy, very bad deal. Take some time to understand what you want in your heart. If you don't want to move then don't move. If you truly feel that moving with your ex is the best thing for you and your life then by all means do it.
You owe it to yourself to take some time and journal, meditate or reflect on what you really want out of life and this relationship.
2006-06-27 12:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by aquavita@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way should you move just for him. I mean if he does not like where you live then that's his problem, it's not like he lives there as well. Also if you really like where you live then move anyway just to make him happy you will be unhappy and if you two break up then it will have all been for nothing. Just because he wants you to do something does not mean you have to do it.
2006-06-27 12:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by argyle_ninja93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like someone that is pretty easy in the sack. If you are planning on moving in (again) with someone to whom you are not married, you may as well get used to a series of unsuccessful sexual relationships throughout your life. This one will not last. He will live with you as long as you let him screw you whenever he wants, and you help pay the bills. It is a great deal for him. Free sex, no commitment, no obligation, just screw until he gets bored and them he can dump you and move on to the next easy conquest.
Sounds like quite the life you've carved out for yourself, sweetie.
2006-06-27 12:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! don't move else where with him. if you like the place you are living then why leave that place because of a guy that is likely to break up with you again
2006-06-27 12:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by lamzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If you guys broke up in the first instance because one cheated on the other then no. If you guys broke up due to distance then try come to an agreement and insure that nothing is assumed. Lay it all out that way you do not look like and as* because you assumed the terms.
2006-06-27 12:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by Demonix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if this time around is worth and you both remember the reasons you guys broke up and if the reasons you guys broke are now resolved.
2006-06-27 12:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy where you are, maybe he can move. Or wait to see if it works out then move. Kinda depends when it comes to careers.
2006-06-27 12:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by suziQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if u really like were u live thats his problem u shouldnt move especially if ur relationship hant gone well if u dont like were u live u could think about it
2006-06-27 12:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by limelight64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like where you live?
2006-06-27 12:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by Norm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋