I have self destruction issues that ive told them about I was abused by someone when i was younger that ive told them about and they will not help me.
2006-06-27 05:24:23 · 10 answers · asked by Tinka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Those are your parents! Tou should be best friends! Espaecially when a teenager! When your parents argue, u shouldn't go, better stay so that they would stop if its somthing private, and take u in if it concerns u ;)
Concerning that guy that abused u, u must ask their help!!!
Best wishes
Good Luck
and
Take Care
2006-06-27 05:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by SupaSphinx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-27 05:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by nancythemysterysolver123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A rough time for sure. Leaving would be worse than staying. I know, I did it. For different reasons, but it was tough. I have some ideas. Maybe one will be right for you.
*Ask your parents (when they are not already argueing) if you can go to a friends house when they do argue. Tell them it freaks you out.
*Ask if they can afford a REAL counselor for you. Most guidance counselors at school are not trained for the real tough stuff. They are best for helping you decide the future of your education.
*Talk to the parents of a friend if you are close to them.
Just some ideas, hope something helps.
2006-06-27 05:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Donna D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find a counselor to talk to. You can ask your clergy for a recommendation, or you can ask any clergy member if you aren't religious or don't want to talk to your own.
You can also get recommendations from your family physician--it would be good to visit him/her just for that purpose. There may also be a medicine that would help you.
It is very likely that the best thing for you is to stay with your parents. However, you can get better advice from a counselor or an adult who knows your situation first hand.
Best wishes to you!
2006-06-27 05:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by crao_craz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to go to your school councilor or preacher or someone you can trust and get you a therapist. It's not good for you to be having these thoughts and these problems at home are only re enforcing how you feel. Please do not give up, maybe your parents just do not know how to help you because they may be feeling bad because they were not there to protect you and it sounds like maybe your parents need to see someone also. But, you do not need to be leaving because the streets are a terrible place for any young girl or boy. Please go talk to someone who can get you the help you need. I wish you the best.
2006-06-27 05:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by crash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm little mama do you have anyone else you can live with like a good aunt? or grandma? I was abused when I was younger too. Sorry to hear. Your mom should be the one to help you. If you need to talk more email me! saida7186@yahoo.com
2006-06-27 05:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by MissSmartt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you told your parents and they do anything with the information, I think you need to tell another adult that you trust.
You are reaching out for help and there are people who will help you. Talk to another relative or someone older that you trust and get some help.
2006-06-27 05:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to confide in a school counselor or someone you are close to. You need help and you cannot help yourself. Talk to someone asap.
Good luck!
2006-06-27 05:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay...... till ur 18
2006-06-27 05:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by abvt75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry
2006-06-27 05:27:15 · answer #10 · answered by earldubin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋