that everyone else is having sex before marriage but i just want to wait? when i finally get to the age i'm ready to get married what if there is nobody im interested in that hasn't already had sex?
2006-06-27 05:23:57 · 26 answers · asked by raymonde32132 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
no when you find the right person they will respect you and wait till ya'll are married stay strong
2006-06-27 05:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you should NOT feel bad! Waiting is an admirable thing to do, and rare in today's society. You should be proud, and stick to your morals. If you don't have sex before marriage, you don't have to worry about STDs or pregnancy while you're dating someone. It will help keep relationships from getting as complicated. And don't worry, when you get married, there will still be people interested in sex.
2006-06-27 05:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. I do not think there will ever be a time when a person cannot get married because they did not have premarital sex. On the contrary, it is a sign that you waited to find true love before you had sex. That should flatter your husband/wife.
Addition: I may have misunderstood your question. Did you mean what will happen if you cannot find a person to marry that has not had premarital sex? If that is the question, IMHO, you should not base your decision of whom to marry on whether or not that person had premarital sex. You should base your decision on love.
2006-06-27 05:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by A Person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldnt feel bad. i think abstinence is ok. waiting until marriage is probably better too because if u get pregnant (if ur a girl) there is no way the husband can not support u cuz u guys r already married. if ur a guy.... waiting is still better cuz u wont get in trouble for it etc. whats wrong with non-virgins? even if ur a vifgin i still think the other non-virgin person wouldnt mind too much. people who do mind about that stuff probably isnt right for u anyway.
2006-06-27 05:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by kay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the Bible it says in Hebrews 13:4 that sex is only honorable and pure when in marriage. If you are a Christian, follow God and wait for sex untill marriage. And when you get married it will be one of the greatest gifts for you to give to your Christian wife.
2006-06-27 08:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by !!!!!!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to worry about everyone else! You are doing the right thing and it may be tough to find someone who has waited but you will see it's worth the wait for you
2006-06-27 05:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by momie_2bee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't the only one waiting until marriage. There is someone out there who is going to be so happy that you waited for him and will give your love to him, and him alone. Don't feel bad...I'm waiting too!
2006-06-27 06:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by minnielady86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, have sex right now. This minute.
(Just kidding. Do whatever you want. Just don't hold back from doing something because a bunch of no-nothing 'moral' people think they know what is best for you. It's your life, make your own decisions.)
2006-06-27 05:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't judge people foe sex before marriage, and besides, by the time your with someone for a while and decide to get married, that person wil already be a virgin again for lack of sex for so long ;)...........
2006-06-27 05:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Wendi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't loose hope.
I am teaching my children to stay pure. I have 5 children (I hope) that will be as you. Wait until marriage.
I even teach them that their first kiss should be at the altar during their ceremony.
You are not alone. Wait ... God will provide you the right one.
2006-06-27 05:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by Red-dog-luke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should feel proud, To be different from the majority that just have sex without any sense.. if you really stick to what you believe when the time comes you will feel even prouder...
2006-06-27 05:28:24 · answer #11 · answered by ymargoud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋