I was ninteen and I dated a 30 year old. We had a year long relationship. I don't regret it because everything turned out for the best and we are still consider him as a friend even though we lost touch.. Hello Glen Swanson from Natick Avenue in Sherman Oaks, California. lol
2006-06-27 05:15:39
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answered by asoldierswife 7
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Good advice is that serious dating can wait. But here's some good advice on men in general. Also, if this question has been asked because a disagreement with your parents; it's a proven fact that every generation matures 6 months sooner than the last.
Advice:
BEST ADVICE ON MEN -WHEN 2 KEEP & WHEN 2 GIVE UP! ;)
Category: Romance and Relationships
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to
be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly
happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a
friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he
has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a
two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and
your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you
need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to
appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............
2006-06-27 05:13:25
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answered by R L 2
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I was 16 years old, he was 18. I was at the end of my Junior year in High School, he had just finished his first year of college away, and was home for the summer.
My best friend was dating his younger brother and she hooked us up to go to my Junior prom together. After the prom we started dating and have now been together for over 5 years. We have lived together for 3 years and will be getting married soon now that I am done with college :)
I don't regret it at all, even though for 5 years MANY people have been saying that relationships starting out that young never last. I know a lot of people's relationships don't work out, but some do!
Pointers: Communicate a lot about every feeling/thought, and don't hold anything back. Make each other the most important thing in the world...but have other friends, hobbies, and a LIFE! Have faith in your relationship, know what you want, and don't listen to anyone who has negative comments.
2006-06-27 05:13:19
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answered by e_r_c_15 3
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2006-06-27 05:10:25
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2006-06-27 05:19:41
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2006-06-27 05:15:04
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answered by pechanga785 2
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I started dating when I was in 5th grade, but didn't really get out with a guy until I was in 6th grade. I felt much older, and I was a responsible girl, as I am still. I was always shy of holding a guys hand, so I think that is why parents weren't too worried about it. Of course, my first date was really at his house, and we weren't really into the whole kissing thing. But when he was, and I still wasn't, we didn't get along very well. The next few relationships, like the next one, lasted a very long time. I loved him alot and that is who I had my first kiss on the cheek. This was when I was 12 turning 13! Just recently, I went to the movies with my current boyfriend. This is the 3rd boyfriend I have ever had gone OUT with! But me and him had "chemistry" and that is why we went a little fast on the our first & second dates. But that ended quickly...I have learned that the reason why I was so afraid of getting a kiss from a guy was because I always imagined that I should feel the same to kiss, but I was afraid it would go to waste. It didn't. That is why I am glad that I started to experience relationships before I hit the actual teenage years. It taught me alot, like what kind of guys I like, and what is not for me.
2006-06-27 05:15:41
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answered by naturegirl625 2
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I started dating when I was 16 I felt ready to be in a relationship with a guy. But, did not go as far as to regret what I did at the time.
I do not regret that I started dating when I did! but, now I am 18 I feel like I am more mature because I started dating when I did. Just take it slow and do what your heart tells you!
2006-06-27 05:12:55
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answered by Anonymous
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2006-06-27 05:12:22
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answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7
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2006-06-27 05:11:07
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answered by Anonymous
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2006-06-27 05:11:00
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answered by Anonymous
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