I know he isn't talking to someone else but i really miss him and the fight was partially my fault.
2006-06-27 05:04:01 · 11 answers · asked by Bre 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I'd have to say that after two months of not speaking he may still be your friend, but probably not your boyfriend. However, I think if you still have feelings for him you should give him a call just to see what's up.
If he is receptive to a conversation, great! But don't be surprised (or too upset) if he is not. Two months is more than enough time get over a relationship and start moving on, especially as you're honest to admit, the fight was partially your fault. Guys get defensive and self-righteous when the fight is their fault, so when its not the really get defiant.
There's no harm in trying to talk, maybe you guys can use this to build a stronger relationship. However, be prepared for him to see the relationship as over and irreparable. If that's the case just have a cry and move on yourself, because if he was your "true love", "soul mate", etc. you probably wouldn't have waited two months yourself.
You've got nothing to lose by trying! Good luck!
2006-06-28 02:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has resisted calling you for two months, he is either trying to make a point with you, or has already moved on.
Since you still have feelings for him, you might call him to apologize and see how things stand. My sense, however, is that you're not yet ready for this type of relationship.
Not calling for two days, much less two months, is extraordinarily immature. Mature people discuss their differences and come to some consensus. I think you should probably not yet have boyfriends, and either date casually or not at all until you're really ready.
This is maybe not what you want to hear, but I am being truthful with you, and the truth sometimes hurts. Believe me, you won't really be missing anything. If you never saw that guy again, when you come off your sabbatical, you'll meet plenty more guys who will likely possess more desirable qualities. Honest!
2006-06-27 05:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ancespiration 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, 2 months is a really long time to not talk to your boyfriend. How does that even work? If you feel he's worth it and he hasn't been with someone else, go ahead and give him a call and in an adult manor, tell him how you feel about the fight and if you're sorry, let him know.
2006-06-27 05:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're very likely not going to marry the guy. You're still young. I'm assuming you're 13 from your last post. Is that right? You're probably going to have a few more boyfriends before you find that special one.
You miss him, but is it really worth the trouble to get with him? Cigarettes and other drugs aren't the only addictive things. Being with someone can be addictive, too.
2006-06-27 05:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by forsaken_prophet2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, well would you rather regret something that you never tried to do or regret something that turned out badly. The way I see it, you have about a 50/50 shot AT LEAST of him being happy to hear from you if you call him. If you never call him, you have a 100% chance of never knowing how it would turn out and 0% chance of being happy. Life is too short, just call him.
2006-06-27 05:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not it has been 2 months. Let it go and find someone else. You may miss him now but that pain will go away. Get out there and have some fun.
2006-06-27 05:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 2 months I dont think you can still call him you boyfriend!!!??? But if you miss him call him to say hi
2006-06-27 05:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not dating anymore, 2 months is a long time
2006-06-27 05:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by JK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him now
if you still love him and want to have him in your life
2006-06-27 05:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, haven't you been wanting some good ol' SEX? Go get that Dick.
2006-06-27 05:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋