he says he likes me..does he really?

Question

ok, so i like this guy, and we were "together" for almost a month. we were not official, yet if i were to kiss another guy then that would be cheating...well..everything was going great until we were cuddling and he brought something up. that he does not feel right with us going out. he doesnt want to hurt me..and he thinks i am one in a million. but he does not want to ruin our friendship. he also asked if i wanted to be :friends with benifits" and i cried and he said things would be ok. i told him in the begginin that i didnt wanna get attched cause i always somehow end up wanting what i cant have. he said that he likes me more than anything....but then he brings up that i am graduating this year. well..i am staying in state. he still cuddles with me and i feel safe with him,....i have never felt this for anyone before..but it is too soon to call it love. i really really like him and dont wanna loose him. there is more that he said..but what do i do? PLEASE HELP!! i cant loose him!!!

he also said that i deserve better...but i dont...he is what i deserve!

Answer 1

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 2

no, he's lying.