I've been dealing with a someone since decemember of last year steady but as friends we would have sex and we met each other parents, 5 months into the friendship her parents started refering ro me as her ol' man (boyfriend) i didn't have a problem with it but she did she would snap back saying were just friends. So about two weeks ago i told her i feel like i'm her sex buddy and she didn't agree but once i told her why i felt like that then she saw my reason. so i told her either we gone be friends and i was gone to stop playing the relationship role or we can start working on a relationship. She chosse to work on a relationship, so i we've been together offically for two weeks now, and i'm having doubts that this is not what she wanted but i told her if she changes her mind then tell me. i'm just having doubts
2006-06-27 04:55:25 · 15 answers · asked by K-Def 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, don't be stressin too much.
my boyfriend and i started as best friends, yes having sex and all that stuff [not so often]. we were best friends for 2 years and today is infact our third month anniversary =]
i think, you should just be happy. and make sure that you guys have fun.
don't have doubts, as doubts may ruin a relationship. instead, enjoy.
2006-06-27 04:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Miss M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that if YOU are "having doubts" then YOU have to "work them" out in YOUR mind and within the relationship, otherwise the "doubts" will always be omnipresent and there may always be "problems" for YOU, within this particular relationship. Exactly what kind of doubts are you having? Make a list of "Pro's" and "Con's" about the relationship - if there are more "Pro's" than "Con's" - then you have to work on yourself and the relationship. But if there are more "Con's" than "Pro's" then call the whole thing off before either one gets more, and more involved!!!!!
2006-06-27 12:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are the one having the doubts! She wouldnt have agreed if she didnt want to, and most women wont have sex on a regular basis unless its someone closer than just a friend. You need to decide what you want and then move forward with it.
2006-06-27 11:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you doubt her then you should re-think your situation. A good firm relationship should have full trust on both sides to be strong. From what I see you need to either take things slow and build this trust or end it quick before things blow up.
2006-06-27 12:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't feel that she wants this and why. Possibly even break it off... If you love something let it go, if it comes back you know it loves you too, if not you know you were right to have doubts.
2006-06-27 11:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be having doubts its wrong for her to make u feel like ur her sex buddy
2006-06-27 12:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by lilgurl_721 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the problem is that she doesnt know wat she wants her self just play it cool for another couple of weeks either she will start falling for u or she wont u have to make the decision on if she will be the right person for u 2 get serious wit
2006-06-27 12:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shes just lookin for s*x without a comitment, you should just find someone thats looking for a relationship and let this girl go
2006-06-27 11:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Jamie~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she could be with u for the sex but mabey she is with u for who you really are i think you should give it a while before you start judging the realationship
2006-06-27 12:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_chocolate@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's only two weeks ...as long as you openly communicate with each other you can resolve whatever issues regardless if it's to stay as friends or couple.....
2006-06-27 11:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋