Just wanting to know other people's feelings about the subject. CAN you have sex with your best friend and just remain friends or does there always have to be feelings involved.
2006-06-27 04:37:22 · 15 answers · asked by whatupg62271 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it's possible, but eventually someone could start to develop some feelings for the other one. You both have to be completely honest. Remember, this is a "booty call", it's all about the orgasm, not about love or a relationship. Be very careful or someone may get hurt. Best of luck to you.......
2006-06-27 05:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is possible but very difficult. Sex usually involves emotions and kissing. There is almost always one person that develops stronger feelings than just friendship. Just becareful how much sex you're having and not spend all your time together. One question for you to think about, Would you be upset if he got a gf and the sex stopped? Or would he be upset visaversa? Good luck
2006-06-27 11:44:52 · answer #2 · answered by Blue_eyed_mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends w/benefits is a wonderful concept. Reality is, feelings will come into play no matter how hard you try to avoid them. In the case of best friends, it is not a bad thing. Long term relationships that start out as best friends stand a better than average chance of lasting.
2006-06-27 11:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is the ultimate form of love. Feelings will always be involved no matter what you do, you cant just do it with youre best friend, and expect to a have a bf/gf on the side, your realtionship will most likely turn into more.
2006-06-27 11:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by Aimee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can remain that way just as long as you feelings don't get involve and you start expecting more from this relationship.
2006-06-27 11:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know..... once you cross that line..... there's no going back. I've found that rarely can you remain just "friends" simply because of the intimacy you have shared. Face it.... when you "sleep" with somone you've entered into an area "just friends" haven't any business venturing into. The consequences are life changing.. Let me leave you with this line from something I wrote a couple of years ago. "I'd rather be your friend forever..... than your lover for a short season". lab. Take these words .....they're free..... their meaning....priceless.
2006-06-27 12:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by Beaumeader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There doesn't have to be feelings involved but usually one of the people starts to develop feelings. Then its all down hill from there.
2006-06-27 11:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or course not. If you do it on that assumption, you will find out quickly that it's impossible. Somebody is going to catch deeper feelings it's natural to be with somebody for a while and have deep feelings for them. Sex with no strings is so dumb. Sorry thats just my opinion.
2006-06-27 11:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by Luna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did with my best friend and it ended up being something more. But i really think that the feelings we had for each other were there WAY beforeand the event let us let those feelings out.
2006-06-27 11:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by frogs112 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its human nature... it may start out as just sex but it always gets to be more! emotions are hard to control, more so with women because its more of a mental connection than a physical one! good luck
2006-06-27 11:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by carpenter2929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋