What do you think she got jeleaus or what?

Question

Ok I had a "best-friend" since high school. (we were friends for 12 years). I loan her money so we can go to Disney together (about 1,000) when she didn't have money to go out I pay it doesn't matter to me. Anyway one day she told me someone told her I was talking bad about her, and I asked her who did it, and she can't answer it. The next month she become like crazy she started to insult me and talk bad about my family and friends. I never understand why she did it. At the end she tried to sue me cause I was "trying to kill her" (something that is not true of course) and she didn't have any proof about it. When we went to court room she said to the judge I was lesbian and I was in love with her (something that is not true, I love guys a lot and she knows that) and I don't know how more lies she said about me in the court room. Of course the Jugde didn't believe her and the case was dismiss. I just want to know why she did all that to me, I never did anything to her. What do u think?

I forgot to add she owns me 100.00 but I told her it was just fine I dont care about the 100.00

And yes she pay off the 900.00 and she owned me 100.00

Also she put my picture on the net and asked everyone if I'm cute or not... and of course I did the same... I would post the site of her pics and mine, but I don't think that will help at all.

I know she got huge issues in her childhood, but sometimes for me is so hard to believe that she did all these to me. I was her only friend no matter what.

Even sometimes I have huge nightmares about all these things, cause is so hard to believe my "bestfriend" did all that to me, and she public all my secrets also and a lot of lies and stuff like that with out a good reason.

Answer 1

Oh yes. She's definetely jealous and a little bit on the crazy side. Anyways, she's probably mad because you had to money to pay for her trip, and she didn't. She probably wishes to be a big baller like you of course, but umm.. I couldn't see why you just didn't avoid her when she started doing these things. But I know you couldn't help, because you thought that was your friend right? So many times that has happened to me, and now I've learned to not think people are my bestfriends all the time, and to keep my mouth shut about my secrets and stuff. But anyways babester, I hope everything works out, and just learn to stay away from people who will harm you, and be wise about certain situations and clues that you are seeing about your so called "bestfriends." Hollerz.

Answer 2

Did she pay you back the $1,000 dollars for going to Disney? It sounds to me that she doesn't want to pay you back for the money she borrowed so she is trying to cause a 'breakup' of your friendship. If she did pay back the 1,000 dollars and only owes you $100 then this baffles me. The only thing I can think of is that someone who took me to court or made accusations like this against me would not get a second chance from me. I would not want this person as a friend as loyalty means a lot to me. Find a new friend and forget her. Do not look her way, do not acknowledge her, forget she even exists. This is the best advice I can give you-you really don't need people like this for a friend.

Answer 3

Two thoughts come to mind:

1. She's bipolar and went into a fit. That's really sad and tragic. Maybe schizophrenic.

2. She was seeing your bf behind your back and needed to create distance b/w you so as not to get caught.

Answer 4

she got jealous..i don't know why she's jealous but i think it's because you're good at something and she's not..or maybe you're fortunate and she's less fortunate..

i have friends like that..i keep them as my fair-weather friends.. sometimes we have to take the blame just so that our so-called friends can be happy..don't think about it anymore! it's going to hurt you more when you think about it..

Answer 5

Maybe she had fantasies and couldn't handle them.