is a burden to keep balance to not collapse on the girl?
2006-06-27 04:25:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not necessarally. A lot depends on the girl, the exact position, etc. I don't think I've ever found it to be a real problem though.
2006-06-27 04:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by danl747 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of balance. It takes some upper arm strength to hold oneself in a permanent push-up while exerting such physical stress on the lower half, especially when most of the blood is rushing to the organ. Some people have that strength, while other don't. You just have to find out what's right for you and your partner. I mean, do you really need him to stay above you, or is it okay for him to lie on you? Could you find another position that's just as good or better, like him standing at the edge of the bed or you riding on top of him? Don't be afraid to experiment and even get a little freaky.
2006-06-27 11:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by jaybirdri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for me Cosmo, but I would imagine it would be for some guys espically if they are a bit heavy. Now that you mention it the one position that I found the hardest to keep from collapsing my partner is as follows. She is on her knees and I start with the usual way of taking her from behind, that being me on my knees and my hands on her waist or holding her butt cheeks. Now here's where the tricky part comes in I remain in her while going from my knees to my feet so it is like I'm sitting in a chair, but there is no chair, nor is there any support under me , I'm still inside but nothing not her body nor my body is hindering a total abdomin slapping deep penatration the the only part of me touching the floor or bed ( the bed is what makes it the most difficult because it springs and tries to throw me off balance ) are my two feet and I can usually lock the stance in and go for along time without using my partner for balance. After awhile though the back and forth forces me to hold on to her waist with both hands and pull her into me then push her away. Anyway that is my favorite sexual position and she loves it as well. It also makes for picture perfect personal video's which we both enjoy, but me the more so. I enjoyed relating this experience to you, it was sort of like phone sex which I have no experience with, but I guess at its rewards. If you have any other questions pertaining to or just want to discuss such matters, please contact me anytime. Rensereader@cox.net Please excuse my typos Spell check is down .
2006-06-27 11:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how physically and mentally fit the guy feels. If he is overweight and run down mentally he may not care ... just as long as he gets his. However, if he is over weight and mentally prepared sex will boost his confidence and he will want to keep his balance. Likewise, If a guy is physically fit and mentally burdened his very physic will kee him balanced for the most part but he may not be in the mode. If he is fit both physically and mentally ... then he'll take care of you.
2006-06-27 11:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by ujenfo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many positions where balance is not even an issue. Some of them one can thrust all night til the next morning, he'd probably loose feelings but not his balance. Thanks for the Q hun. Had to get my 2 points in also.
2006-06-27 11:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if your into the moment!!! Never had that problem myself but then again we do all kinds of things during sex. Not just missionary position!!! But it should be never a burden if it is why do it!!! Tell him to work out more if he can`t hold himself up for an hour or so!!!
2006-06-27 11:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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If you do a certain exercise, you will not have this problem.
Do 50 squats every day...it will build your leg muscles and enhance your balance wonderfully.
Do 50 daily. Stand in front of a chair, and go down as far as sitting and stand back up. Do this slowly in both directions of squatting and standing.
stw
2006-06-27 11:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that having sex feels so good that i don't even pay attention to burden or not.
2006-06-27 11:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Ben Dover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is hard to keep your balance if you are getting tired being in the push up position.
2006-06-27 11:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by David Rice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a burden, it's a pleasure. The labor of love.
2006-06-27 11:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by warmwardbound 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋