I have a wonderful man in my life that I kinda enjoy expressing my love to but whenever I tell him "I love him" he asks me "why do I love him" or "why I chose him." So is he questioning my love, does he just like to hear why or is there something else to it?
2006-06-27 03:40:54 · 10 answers · asked by kiamme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just enjoys the answer you give him
2006-06-27 03:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by rives 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't think he is worthy of love or that he is good enough for you. At first this can make you feel bad/sad for him but I think its an underlying problem. When someone asks you "why me ?" that means they dont understand why you would choose them. Kinda like if they were you they wouldn't choose themselves. I mean, can you ever see yourself asking a guy why he is with you ?? The only reason I can see for asking that is me knowing they should not be with me. Hope all this makes sense. It does in my head.
2006-06-27 10:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's insecure about himself and needs you to validate him. Tell him you love him you don't need a reason,you just plain love him.
2006-06-27 10:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by LUNCHY THE PIRATE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he's pretty uncertain about himself. Giving a compliment from time to time might make him feel better about himself.
2006-06-27 10:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by Tim D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just find you so amazing that he probably thinks to himself that he is unworthy of you. He may just need a little reasurrance
2006-06-27 10:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Neka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be both. i think he just wants to hear why to make himself feel good.
2006-06-27 10:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by alilfishy06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to know,therefore,he really feels something for you.Guys need reassurance when we really feel something for a woman.
2006-06-27 11:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ask that same question of my guy. its a serious question and if he is still asking then the first answer you gave him didnt sit well with him. flip the question and ask it of him, see what you get and how you feel about it...
2006-06-27 10:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants to know how you feel and why you feel that cause maybe he feels more like the same and it may make yall relationship stronger and better
2006-06-27 10:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its kind of sweet.
he just wants reassurance
maybe he thinks you are too good for him!
let him know what a great guy you have!
2006-06-27 10:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by Cap'n Donna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋