my question before was, why do all the guys i date want sex ...i usually say yes to them ... i regret it after ... i lost my virginity at a very young age(14) does this make me a whore...i dont want to look like that!!!
2006-06-27 03:33:26 · 31 answers · asked by shexipolly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 18 now
2006-06-27 03:33:48 · update #1
Your not a whore. Your probably going through a stage that alot of people don't want to admit they have been through. I can only suggest that you have safe sex in the meantime.
2006-06-27 03:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Not necessarily. I know a lot of virgins that I consider whores and I know some girls that have slept with 100 guys and I would never consider them whores. It is all in how you carry yourself and how you present yourself. You can enjoy sex, have multiple partners and have them frequently, and still not act like a whore! Hold your head up and remember, if you think you are a whore then you probably are. If you know you are not, then who cares what anyone else thinks!
2006-06-27 10:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does not make you a whore. You need to realize that your feelings come first, and you cant be giving in to every guy who wants sex. that will earn you a bad rep for sure. If you dont want the sex, then stand up for yourself, and if the guy puts up a stink about it, then it will just go to show how much of a big he really is.
2006-06-27 10:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by alilfishy06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure this is a rhetorical question.
Girls have fun during sex and they want to blame guys for wanting sex.
If the question read, "How can I get my self-esteem back after having too much sex in my teenage years?" I'd understand the root of the question.
You are not a whore. You just like to have sex and go out with guys who like to have sex, also.
When you find "better" things to do....you'll do it.
When you want to re-invent your personality and your reputation you'll do it.
This Summer would be a GREAT time to start !!!!!
Good luck.........just stop playing a "victim" and stop blaming the boys.
2006-06-27 10:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by TeaSwami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men want sex because they are well.........men but no it dosent make you a whore to have sex with these guys just make sure you are having safe sex.Have fun you only live once and you deserve to be happy but if this makes you feel bad about yourself you need to change things good luck
2006-06-27 11:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by heather7569 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
losing your virginity at 14 does not make you a whore...giving into and having sex with every guy that asks does make you a whore/slut/skank/....but you can change this...you are in control of who you are and what you do...live your life your way....if you do not want to look like a whore, then stop doing whorish things....if you like doing whorish things than don't worry about how other people look at you....also, consider counseling to addresss why you are so quick to simply give in to a guy
2006-06-27 10:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't make you a whore. You've just made some poor choices. I don't think you want to be used only for sex. If you're starting to wonder then chances are you don't feel good about it.
2006-06-28 10:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question. "What need am I trying to fulfill by having premarital sex?" and why am I allowing this person who only cares about the physical to invade my body and reduce me to bad feelings. Don't give anyone that kind of authority over your body (you are a precious God Created being) Jesus Christ died for you and and loves you so much. You were made in His image... Don't allow anyone to defile you. The guilt you feel is from knowing deep down inside that you are worth so much more and you've allowed someone to give you so much less. You need to value yourself the way God values you. Believe me you're worth soooooooooo much more than you can ever imagine. You ARE NOT a whore.
Don't allow anyone to treat you like a check out stand. (meaning... taking what THEY want to satisfy themselves and leaving you alone, sad and hurt.
2006-06-27 10:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope sweety, a whore gets paid, a s lut is asking for it. a ***** is a pregnant dog, and a prostitude basically does that for a living.
if you regret it after, and you already know for a fact that you regret it after, then why do it?! PORQUE??!?!?!?! xD sry.
next time, set limits, doing it just as easy as one two three only send the wrong message to the other guys.
i've answered your previous question, go check that out xD
2006-06-27 10:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by Miss M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't make you a whore, but you do sound pretty free with your gift of making love. remember this is a gift and it should be something that you guard and share only with those that you really care for. Good luck in the future!
2006-06-27 10:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋