Male or female, the 'secret admirer' is somebody close to you that fantasises about you and onanistically celebrates their desire for you by picturing you naked or in a particular outfit...but how does it make you feel that they're thinking about you in the bathroom, or the sock next to the bed, when you have to see them everyday...?
2006-06-27 03:27:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not asking about revealing that you are a secret admirer, but the fact that they are loving themselves with your picture in their mind...and is it worse if it is another girl?
2006-06-27 03:35:19 · update #1
if I see you every damm day and and you like me so god damm much, why not just ask me out? I'll never know you liked me otherwise! cuz, watching from afar ain't going to get you anywhere!
2006-06-28 01:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by hacker 3 · 22⤊ 11⤋
AS LONG AS IT IS SECRET THEN I DO NOT SEE A PROBLEM. THEY DO NOT KNOW YOU ARE ADMIRING THEM. EVERYONE HAS A SECRET ADMIRE. SOMEONE THEY HAVE FANTASIES ABOUT. ALWAYS BE A FRIEND FIRST. WHO KNOWS MAYBE ONE DAY THE SECRET WILL BE SHARED. JUST DO NOT ALLOW THE FANTASIES TO CLOG YOU MIND AND BODY. RELAX AND CHILL OUT ALLOW YOURSELF YOUR TIME. OBSESSION CAN LEAD TO ALOT OF UNHEALTHY CHOICES. NORMAL FANTASIES ARE HEALTHY.
2006-06-27 10:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by ELAINE DEAN 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would feel flattered that they liked me enough to think about me. It would not worry me that i had to see them everyday as long as it did not get to the point where i felt as if i were being stalked or something.
2006-06-27 10:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't bother me.They're not hurting me or doing anything wrong,so what's the problem? I know some girls have a huge issue with things like that, but not me.
2006-06-27 10:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by cc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it would be really cool to have a secret admirer... just as long as there not like a stalker
2006-06-27 10:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by Cheyenne O 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude ...thin line between ' secret admirer '
and ' secret lecher '.
be careful....u r treading in a super sensitive territory.
IF she ever finds this out,
she's not goin 2 wanna even SPIT on ur face.
2006-06-27 10:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is flatery to a point as long as its not obsessive, ok this is funny, my husbands friend has a 15yr old who says when he turns 18 he is going to take me away from my husband and he masturbates thinking of me. funny huh, but to me its kinda ugh!!!
2006-06-27 15:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♥My 2 Cents♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont have a problem with that it depends on how far you take the fantasy i supose, too far and it could be construed in the wrong way.
2006-06-27 10:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by linsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Top of the pops! its quality I think!
2006-06-27 10:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's quite creepy actually, and not more so if it's another girl
2006-06-27 16:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by Rotifer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel good.
2006-06-27 11:11:02 · answer #11 · answered by Cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋