if you met the girl of your dreams and she had 3 children, and their dad was not around,, would you take things further???
2006-06-27 02:25:54 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes of course. Women who have children (99%) have a certain quality that you only get after motherhood. That quality is one of the main attractions for me. It is a caring nature that is unmatched. I have dated both and can compare. It is of course easier for me to date a women w/ kids b/c I too have a child and we both can relate on the restrictions of time and money. Women without kids don't understand the demand and it does not usually work out if the man's has those type of responsibilities. So I would say for me, it easier to date a woman w/ kid(s).
2006-06-27 02:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
This has been a recent quandry of mine as well. However on a more personal note.
I have been trying to figure out what I would do, I guess I'd want to be sure I was stable enough emotionally, and financially before jumping into an instant family. As well as to be sure I wouldn't traumatize the children by becoming a part of their lives then disappearing. They had enough of it with their real daddy or daddies.
secondly. I'd have to take a step back. Are the 3 kids from the same man, if so I could accept that alot more easily than from different men. 3 babies from 3 daddies means the woman sleeps around, and I'm not getting into that sort of relationship.
if it's one daddy, and he's out of the picture that's fine.
2006-06-27 02:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by lovpayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I fell in love with my partner who has 3 children. Its easy to fall in love. Having step children is nice sometimes. However it can be VERY difficult if she has not gotten over the trauma of splitting up with a man she had 3 kids with. Their fathers shadow will always be in their lives and yours too. Its really hard to be in such a situation where you can establish a good routine that can be destroyed so easily by her X through his interaction with his kids.
Guys if you get involved with a woman who has children be prepared for all the hard work and commitment that such a relationship requires every single day. Also be aware of the tug of war games that parents do with their children when they split up. It can amount to an emotional war zone.
Peace.
2006-06-27 02:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bern_CH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. I've been out with women who have children many times, although for me 3 would be too much hard work. In all seriousness, if it's the girl of your dreams the number of children is immaterial
2006-06-27 02:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by five-oh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady with children, probably, girl of dreams..most likely, father not around definitely....Dating a women with children whose Dad just got to continue to ruin plans by not taking care of his obligations or twisting the truth to make it sound like boyfriend is taking Mom away from them...can be extremely annoying...I am a family kind of guy...so to have a family that needs a good male role model....I'd welcome the challenge.
2006-06-27 02:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I would b/c I have already done that! My realtor hooked me up w/ her niece about 6 years ago & said she had a 1 year old but wasn't looking for anything but friends with "benifits". Well, all I had to do was see her for the first time & that was all I needed. It turned into 2-1/2 years of something great!
2006-06-27 02:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by jayhawk1124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I met the girl of my dreams I would take things further
A woman who has kids makes you think twice about dating but if the spark is there you will overcome all obstacles in your path
2006-06-27 02:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by Steve P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If their dad had just popped out for a while, then...Hell NO.
I'd be delighted to meet a lady with children and no husband, especially if she's a good mum to them.
2006-06-27 03:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by ʎǝ1ʇʇnɯ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I like the person it means that I will like her children too!! I had a girlfriend who had a 4 year daughter! Everything was OK!
2006-06-27 23:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by world 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. I married one with two children and we have been together many years. Good luck. The guy has to be into children more than into biology.
2006-06-27 02:29:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋