my wife look down on me?

Question

she always said i am stupid and find fault with me . logically i am right , but jus because she she got a degree from the local U. i have a O level only

Answer 1

You look up to her

Answer 2

it does not matter if u have only o level and she has a degree. if u love someone, all that does not matter, so i think she is just trying to find a way to tell u that she is no longer interested in u so i think it will be best if u do not put too much of your self in your relationship cos she can decide to leave u when ever she pleases. i am sorry if that hurts but that if the fact so u better decide what u want to do.

Answer 3

She has an inferiority complex and is using you as a means to boost her ego. Don't let her. Stand up to her and use logic. If she resorts to citing her degree against you, walk away. People with self-esteem issues hate being ignored. Don't pay her any attention till she decides to play nice.

If she refuses, leave her. Save some money and get yourself qualified so you'll never have to put up with that $hit ever again.

Answer 4

Well my dear maybe you didn't know her as well as you thought when you married her? Perhaps she's not happy in some part of her life and takes it out on you. You should tell her that it bothers you and if she doesn't stop then I would consider moving on. A life with a wife who always puts you down is not fun...and it's not really worth staying. I have watched my Grandparents do it for 33 years and it's hell for them and for all of the family.

Answer 5

probably the reason she looks down upon you is that she is not worth it, yes not even in a single. come on she is supposed to be your wife pf all people and not your girlfriend or just a friend the fact that she is your wife means a lot, that she is supposed to stick by you even in the gravest of problems helping you out where you are weak just as you do that in return for her.
now that she looks down at you means that she has defied all principles of marriage. do you know what, LIG yes L I G, Let It Go
let her go not only is she wasting your time but above all your love

Answer 6

Honey that's terrible because there has to be respect in a relationship for it to work. Doesn't sound like she respects you at all. Have you talked to her and told her the way you fell about how she treats you? You should and then if she still treats you like that maybe counsling cuz the marriage won't last.....I hope all the best for you, make sure you talk to her communication is key in a relationship too.

Answer 7

She should be supportive of you even if you never stepped foot in a classroom at all.She had to see something in you to marry you.On the other had mental abuse is worse than physical abuse,bruises can heal,hurtful remarks stay with you forever,if she cant learn to be supportive of you,Get out while you still have some self esteem left.Good luck,God bless :O)

Answer 8

I don't feel any of us have the right to call another person names. It doesn't accomplish a thing. I'd have a serious talk with her. If she can't or won't change her behavior, I'd think about what I wanted with the rest of my life and possibly leave.

Answer 9

F*** Her man life to short get a girl on the side .A degree dont mean **** if you dont use it its alot of dumb people with degrees .I mean she aint better than you .Tell her to pee standing up you'll see you the man act like it

Answer 10

You need to go to the wizard and get a Brain......he gave the tin man a degree LOL

Answer 11

my wife has a degree and I don't also.She gave me trouble atfirst,when she found out that I can get half of pension ifshe left me she change her tune