had too much to drink and had sex with my ex. bf we did not use a condom i sure and i dont remeber how many times we had sex. we are both dating other people my realationship w/ my bf right now is bad and i still love my ex but this was unplanned he was my first everything. i met his gf yesterday and she is so nice i feel awful this happened two weeks ago and my period is now 3 weeks late i was pregnant once before by my ex.(miscarried) though. i dont have any sighns other than sore boobs and feeling little tired could i be pregnant?i have yet to even have sex with my current bf and i feel horrible. i took 3 pregnancy tests only one came back positive should i tell my ex. bf. this could get way awkard were both only 18 and going to same colleges and going to be in three classes together.i went last night to get blood test done at my friends lab job quest diag. and it also came back positive . i have a doctors appointment today what are the odds a blood test is wrong?
2006-06-27 00:49:45 · 13 answers · asked by jamie w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel misrable and guilty and i cathlic so cant have abortion. my friend who pushed blood work thru says she has never seen wrong blood test
2006-06-27 00:51:39 · update #1
my bf going to dump me my ex. is going to be mad his gf protective and probably going to throw a fit!i dont now how to even bring this up!
2006-06-27 00:59:41 · update #2
Well looks like your are with child, there is no denying it. The first thing I would do is come clean now; don't wait, it will only make things worse. Although I can't speak for the boyfriend or your ex's current girlfriend; I'm sure they will be upset, hopefully in time they will be forgiving. If your relationship with your boyfriend is bad and continues to (although realistically due to circumstance it might be over now) I would suggest focusing on yourself and your baby. You really don't need anything weighting you down while your pregnant. I would also continue to go to college, you'll be happy that you continued furthing your education in the long run. Best of luck and Congrats.
2006-06-27 00:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by RX2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately my friend I have bad news... You have 0,01% possibility not to be pregnant since a pregnancy test and the blood test came positive... Since you cannot have an abortion, then I suggest that you should speak with both your ex- and current boyfriend, so that all of you can make the right decision! I hope that everything will be alright!
2006-06-27 07:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by maria d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down Hun, I'm Catholic too. i know how we told about being pregnant before marriage and how we can't have get rid of the child.. you will be fine.. as many test as you have taken Hun. you are pregnant. you need to tell him before you go to the doc's. that way he can go with you. i know even when i got pregnant at your age i was scared to death waiting to find out. if you love him and it seems he is not over you. or you both would not have been together. you need to take this thing head on together. if you are old anof to have sex. then your old anoff to take the responsibility for what you have made. if you both decide you don't want the baby. there are other ppl that would love to have yalls child. you always have choice's.
2006-06-27 08:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by Christy L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may well be. If abortion is out of the picture, and you dont want the baby consider adoption. If you are, you will probably lose your current boyfriend, I know I would leave you. Hopefully next time you will be more careful about drinking so much. Best of luck to you. One last thing, remember that sometimes mistakes turn out to be the best things to happen to us.
2006-06-27 07:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness - the odds are probably pretty good that the test is accurate - blood tests for hormones that are released when a woman becomes pregnant. From what you describe here sweetheart, you probably are. My heart goes out to you.
2006-06-27 07:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by Fun and Games 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is going to have another first with you,first to be your babies daddy,whats done is done,no taking it back now.Of course you should tell him,after all he took part in the making.Hope life turns out good for all concerned.Good luck,God bless.:)
2006-06-27 07:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this will sound terabel but whyu dot you do all the stuff your not ment to do when you pregnant like get drunk and do i dont but sinse you cant have an abortion then ya... and you should tell your bf your self cuz wat if he finds out an anouther whay... it could be wors tell him the truth and if he loves you then he might get a littel angry but forgive you in the end.
2006-06-27 08:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's too bad, I think being a catholic is the least of your worries now.
2006-06-27 07:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by kmcar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's that laugh the kid from the Simpsons cartoon always makes, oh yeah...
"Hah, Hah!"
2006-06-27 08:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're pregnant. No big surprise, Is it?
2006-06-27 07:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋