I'm new in this town and have never been in a love relationship before. So there's this gorgeous guy whom I've heard he loves me but can't go out with me cause he kind of has a girlfriend right now. On the other and there's this one who keeps on asking to go out with me but I don't like him. My friends suggest I should forget about the one who has a girlfriend and go out with this other one. Do you think this is the best solution?
2006-06-27 00:44:58 · 25 answers · asked by Rihanha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, U shouldn't go out with the one who keeps asking U out. Since you don't like him very much, there is no reason to go out with him. If you do, you may just trap yourself in a relationship you really hate, with no way to get out. Every one enjoys having someone like them, but you shouldn't go out with someone just because they adore you. That's not much to base a relationship on. As for the guy that you really like, who seems to like you back, think back and asses the situation. Who was it who told you that he liked you? An enemy? A close friend? Him? When you are around him, does he flirt at all? How does he act with his girlfriend? It could be that this guy really does like you, and is just having trouble on deciding whether or not and how he should break up with his girlfriend. Or, maybe, he or someone else set you up to be played. If he seems true, give him a shot, but don't get in the middle of his relationship. Let him choose, and if he likes you, he'll get out of his relationship. But, whatever you do, don't let him cheat on her with you. That's just cruel, and however much you like a guy, It's just wrong. I hope you get the guy you want. Good luck!!
2006-06-27 01:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you don't even like the second guy, don't bother with him (Though you should get to know him if you don't already do. He may not end up as the love of your life, but he may be a good friend. Or an asshole. Or the love of your life. The point is, you can never be too sure). And forget about the other guy, too. He's with another girl and has never been with you, but he already LOVES you? Yeah, no. Sorry, but you're better off waiting for someone better. Hope it all works out.
2006-06-27 07:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by SixStringSlinger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't want to be waiting for the gorgeous guy now(no two timing), and you should never go out with someone that you don't like.
Solution there are still lots of fish in the sea and a girl like you will meet some that will sweep you off your feet.
Also how can he say he love you but still going out with his girlfriend, what he wants to cheat on her? If he can do that then he could also cheat on you!
2006-06-27 07:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by peter8lao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Rihana. With all due respect to you, your question is pointless. If the guy having a gf would be loving you he would have given up on that girl and gone out with you. On the other hand the other guy who you said you dont want to go out with as you dont like him. That means both dont suit you. I think right think to do is to wait till you find the right one.
By the way is the other guy unfriendly or unattarctive?, keep in mind nobody is perfect. Besides we must learn to compromise sometimes.
As they say - "Dont marry a person you love, marry the person who loves you".
Lastly dont listen to anyone,friends can only suggest, do what your heart says.
2006-06-27 07:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by Invincible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin!
Seriously why upset people, including yourself, go 4 the 1 without a girlfriend.
2006-06-27 07:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start from scratch. Volunteer for a worthy cause. Introduce yourself to one person a day. New in town ask for directions if you see someone who interests you its a great ice breaker.
2006-06-27 07:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by wm12ws 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go out with the boy who has a girlfriend already as that isn't very nice and you woudln't want some girl taking your bf..
don't go out with the other guy if you don't like him thats not fair to him
i'm sure there are other guys who you might like.. that could like you that are available just wait it out.. you'll find the right boy
2006-06-27 07:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please first try to understand what is the reason of falling in love with you by the Guys.
If it is only your physical structure and your face value only then try to avoid them. Because it is temporary effect only.
But nerver ask them because they will definitely not tell you the right reason. Just try to judge . Take time in new place. Go slow but in safe way.
2006-06-27 07:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-27 07:48:11 · answer #9 · answered by RAINGIRL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest, and tell them that there is another boy and after more and more dates you will find which is a better match for you. just be honest!
and if one already has a girlfriend, you should not interfere with them. if he wants to ruin it, let him do, but don't be the reason you break up someone else. how would you feel if that happened to you??
2006-06-27 07:46:48 · answer #10 · answered by madison018 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋