i love sex! But would LOVE it to get better!!! Eny advice?
2006-06-27 00:26:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes for a woman - the sexual enjoyment starts more with a mental stimulation then moves to the physical side. You need to learn to clear your mind, relax and turn your mind to sexual pleasure. I don't mean think about what to do to your man to please him - I mean think about what pleases you - what are your fantasies - what little thing that you or your lover does that just sends you over the top. Work this little thing into your mental fantasy - hopefully this will put your mind in the right mood - believe me if your mind is into it - your body will do just fine. Good luck and happy "O"'s to you!
2006-06-27 00:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by trickster_travels 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have him give you a massage. Tell him that it may not lead to sex, but that you would like him to touch your entire body and just make you feel good. Sometimes you might just like the relaxation, other times it might get you ready to go.
Read stories about sex, or watch it. Sometimes this can help you as well. Think about him during the day and what you would like him to do to you when he is around. That will get you in the mood, and when he is around, you will want to jump him as soon as you see him.
Watch tv together snuggling on the couch or wherever and see what happens. Sometimes you might just cuddle and fall asleep, which is good because it is together time, other times the heat of your bodies together might get you both ready and raring to go.
There are many many ways you can get yourself in the mindset, but don't ever force it because then it will not be as much fun for you or him because you will just not be into it as much. Good lucka nd have fun!
2006-06-27 07:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by Raistliin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love sex and not in the mood I think you should tell him not right now I'm not in the mood and if that doesn't work pop in a movie and let his tounge to the talking.
2006-06-27 07:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by Fannie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of someone you really want to be with. Because if your not in the mood all the time, i guess the sex is boring tell him to spice it up a little. Usaully when you do the same thing all the time your bound not to be in the mood, if it's exciting you can't wait to jump his bones.
2006-06-27 07:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by slimgoody 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he needs to perform something on you that turns you on. If nothing turns you on, then you're not with the right guy. If no guy turns you on, then you should seek therapy. If therapy doesn't work then you may be a big disappointment to a majority of guys except the ones that don't crave alot of sex, and then they will end up being a disappointment to you when you do crave it.
2006-06-27 07:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by Spirit-X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf is maybe not skillful at foreplay or gettin u into the mood .You can probably let him have his way a few times , don't tell meu won't have fun when his bangin u. To get into the mood tell urself I'm a big bad slut , i want that in me
2006-06-27 07:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Vio Prince 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take yourself away from him for a few days like a week or so, and keep yourself away from any men at all. And also make sure that he doesn't comes any near to any girls. After that come back to him, I'm sure you are going enjoy it like never before.
2006-06-27 07:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't go straight to the sex. Start off nice and slow.
2006-06-27 07:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice is, If you are not in the mood, You say you are not in the mood.
2006-06-27 07:30:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should'nt force yourself to have sex just because he wants it right then and there. don't worry. when you are in the mood, most likely he will be too.
2006-06-27 07:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋