Okay, so Im young, 23 to be precise, Ive been told, at various occassions, that I'm above average looking. I have a high IQ, a great job and have academically topped school and university. Ive dated, Ive loved, but never both at the same time. So where are the good guys?
2006-06-26 22:55:34 · 18 answers · asked by Weeptiedoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-26 22:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by el.tuco 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The good guys are all around. Don't look too hard. They are like far away stars that you can hardly see when you look directly, you only see them out of the corner of your eye...
What I'am saying? keep on dating. Do it to meet people and have fun. Love will find its way in somehow. You're young and well kitted... there should be no problem... just don't let all your fancy achievements get to your head, you will do well.
Additionally, If you have dated and loved at different times, it means you have not been asked out by the men you have loved. There are ways of getting attention from these men. Invite them to your birthday party, find out their favorite coffee bars and arrange to accidentally bump into them occassionally...etc etc.. with your high IQ, I'msure youvan invent more ways....and with your good looks, , you should be able to attract attention!!! Good luck.
2006-06-27 06:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by SmartAlec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're here. We are the ones you date and bring home to mom, but you never have that "spark" like the bad boy gives you. I've been surprised sometimes that when I treat a woman like crap, she's crazy about me, but when I decide that she is more than just another date or fling and treat her the way she deserves, she will lose interest. I am kind of a hypocrite, I have to admit, because I'm 36 and still looking for the good girls. Maybe we both have to learn how to compromise and look for a personality in the middle that satisfies both needs. Good luck, and you are still young!
2006-06-27 06:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Spillski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 23, your still all so young. Don't ruch. If you rush you'll make a mistake that could cost/hurt you in a long run. And don't go to a bar or club to meet guys. Talk to one of your friends and see if they can't hook you up. Or start going to cookouts and try meeting someone there. Do you have any hobbies? Try going to an event hosting one of your hobbies there will most likely be a ton of guys. I.E. I ride a harley and there are all so many runs we do. I get to the end of the run and there are tons of people guys and girls that are there by themselves. Some are looking to hook up with a guy or girl. There are just so many ways. Give it a try.
2006-06-27 06:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good guys are all over the place but when there is fundamental problem with the motive the mission will simply be unaccomplished. Love should come before dating although at the time it may be cloudy but omething will impress it on you that something good will come out of it. Dating in serach of love has 10 percent chance of success. All the attribiutes you have are good for you but they are no all waht you need.
The good guys love pleasant girls.
2006-06-27 06:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much all taken. Looking for a good guy is like looking for a needle in a hay stack. But they are out there just keep looking. Don't lower your standards and you will find him.
2006-06-27 06:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by brighteyes62301 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you said you're only 23 ... play a bit longer get the experience the right guy will come along :)
I was 31 when i found real love
2006-06-27 05:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're looking for you too - so don't go into hiding, you will find one of them -- and then have a shot at everyone's fantasy: to live happily ever after.
BUT if you give up and go into hiding, you reduce the chance that you will find him or he will find you.
2006-06-27 06:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am available ,,, but to be honest with u i feel that u r so practical and about my self i know am romantic a t=little so can we work we work that out some how
2006-06-27 05:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right guy for you is out there you just haven't met him yet...
2006-06-27 06:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by BOO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your definition of a 'good guy'. rich? has to be out of an ambercrombie add? big c0ck?
2006-06-27 06:05:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋