me and josh go back about 3 years, i lost my virginity to him and we dated for 1 month, then we abruptly stopped talking. then i met aaron we fell in love fast but it was true love, and we had been together for 2 1/2 years.Our relationship had many problems, and Aaron and i just recently broke up and afterwards all i wanted was him and i told him that, the past 3 weeks ive tried so hard to try and make us work but he never wanted to talk about our problems, or let anything go. he disrespected me numarous times and so ihis friend josh stepped in and we (me and josh) hung out for the weekend, i had so much fun with him and didnt have to worry about a thing the whole time, he had it all taken care of. I had sex with him 4 times that weekend and i feel so bad now because we said i love you to each other and i do have love for him but im not 'in love' with him, the thing is aaron is in my heart my first love and i do love him more than anything, i believe we can work evrything out if i want
2006-06-26 22:49:48 · 7 answers · asked by mystic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but aaron has alot of problems in his life at this time. I want to be with him, but i dont want to hurt josh, (we are supposed to hang out this weekend) if i decide to b with aaron, i cannot let him back into my life right away, i will need some time to think clearly about it, but in the mean time what should i do with josh? i dont know mabey i should b with him, he has all his sh*t figured out and has minimal problems in his life, and i always have so much fun when im with him. what do i do? they both want to be in a longterm committed relationship with me and i know that they both will be faithful but im not sure who to pick and what to do about the other one. please help me out with some advice!
2006-06-26 22:50:29 · update #1
Switch to De-caf.
2006-06-26 22:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously like Josh better, I mean you have more fun hanging around him and there are less problems for you, go for it, it sounds like this Aaron person is more trouble than he's worth!!! You need to find people that you can truley connect with, it sounds to me like you have that connection with Josh...
2006-06-26 22:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Tori_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can u do this 2 ur love? It is so mean of u. Now finally who is the one u love josh, aaron or some one else??????????
2006-06-26 22:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Pichi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aaron is ur 1st love..but not necessarily the true love or the love with whom u r meant to be with ..just decide whose presence is more imp..whom will u miss more..
2006-06-26 22:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by RAINGIRL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a holiday and meet another person...
2006-06-26 22:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by inquisitor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but what and where's the problem? why dont you three just "stick" together?... threesome is goodsome baby :-)
2006-06-26 22:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
complicated......get a counsellor
2006-06-26 22:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by 47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋