i was in England at the weekend and met this guy in a pub on the friday night saturday night and sunday night and we seem to hit it off on all 3nights...problem is..i dont know whether he was being just friendly or whether he liked me..i took photos of him and i together and in all the photos hes smiling in them towards me, whazt should i do? im going back to England in a couple of weeks to visit my family, do you think i should tell him how i feel or is it best to leave it?? i cant stop thinking bout him :(
2006-06-26 22:38:15 · 16 answers · asked by IrishLassie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you havent met me yet.
2006-06-26 22:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Proverbs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, deary, i know the feeling of not being able to get a guy off ur mind. It's trully overwhelming.
Well, i think u have to strike some kind of a relationship with the guy first. From what u'v said...u guys havent met outside the Bar...u didnt exchange numbers...Did u? Even if u did, do u communicate at all?
When u get to England, and u see him again, u could try to see if a friendship can be formed outside the Bar and beyond taking Pics. Get his number, if u dont already have it.
Let time tell. It would put u in better perspective of ur feelings and his. Hopefully, later, u\ll know what to do.
Give it Time!!
Good luck.
2006-06-26 23:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by cookie_recipe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you spoke to him since going back to wherever you are? If he is genuine then he will still be the same when you get back. My only advice is don't go in to hard and fast and the more relaxed you are with each other then no matter what the distance apart at times. These things take time and at least you have something to look forward to. Good luck
2006-06-26 23:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A brief encounter in an English pub does not, necessarily, constitute a lasting relationship unless the couple really get to know each other over a longer period of time with specified ends in their minds (friendship or marriage). Invite him to a nice platter of fish n' chips and see his reaction. Good Luck to both of you.
2006-06-26 22:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT tell him how you feel. He may like you, alot, but he fcannot know you, anymore than you can know him, you only just met. There is no reason not to contact him, and let him know you will be in the country. He may be after just sex or not, but this soon, you cannot know. You obviously share a connection with him, but I have known guys be really into a girl, then sleep with her and just disappear, the more you feel for him, the slower I'd take it. Protect your heart, life will bruise it enough.
2006-06-26 22:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by Tefi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your feelings are great!!! but immediately delete this question from here!! if any scriptwriter sees this, he will make a movie out of it!! :)
now serious!!!! this is 21st century m'am. if a guy smiled at you, that too at a bar, doesn't mean that he loves u.. wud be max looking for a one night stand!! if u r also looking for that.. go ahead and find him.
Be a woman. find your mr.right out side the bar. Bar is never a place to find mr.right.. remember that!!
Good luck.
2006-06-26 23:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by vijaychandran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off by telling him that you like him and see what he says if he says the same back then you have a green light if not then it is time to move on.
2006-06-26 22:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by Wildvamp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know how he feels unless you just come right out and ask him. Go for it. The worst that can happen is he'll say he doesn't have those kinds of feelings for you, the best is you'll bag yourself the man but you'll never know til you ask. Good luck!
2006-06-26 22:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by Sitting Still 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could come back and find him-- who knows perhaps you could carry on from where ya left off. Dont look too much into it though ur fingers might get burnt. Hook up and take it from there. If he dont answer ya texts then u know
2006-06-26 22:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not at all a big problem. Divert your mind. Do not be alone. try to listen some good music.(Like Beethovan)., One fine day you will realise these are nothing in your life.
2006-06-26 22:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by sun P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i only ever really talk to girls if i want to go out with them or if i have to. did u come and talk to him, or was it the other way around? in any case if he hung about you for three days, he probably thought you were cool, but then why didn't he ask for your number? anyway, i don't know.
2006-06-26 22:43:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋