my cousin what do i do. Neither of our parents know how we feel towards eachother. Should we tell them? He is my 3rd cousin by marrige so no blood relation dont freek out...... HELP!
2006-06-26 22:30:39 · 24 answers · asked by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love has no bounds... if your guy loves you so much so that he can go against this world.... go with your guy.... its very difficult to find a pure love.... if you think you have found one, do anything to save that love.... people are not always so lucky.....
if you dont have any blood relation then i don't see why you both can't get married.....
but before telling your parents... talk to your guy... as to whether he will be there standing with you or not.....
2006-06-26 22:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by mitr_hamesha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Big stinking deal. Your family should be able to figure out there is no chance of mentally retarded gran. Don't live your life trying to please others. I could see it if he was your mothers nephew, maybe. It'd kinda be weird but whatever. 3rd by marriage is nothing to be concerned about and if they make an issue over it it's because they don't want you dating period. There is not one damned thing wrong with it, you do it if you want and tell them, if they have a problem, that if they can prove to you beyond a doubt that it is somehow 'morally' wrong, you'll not do it. They can't other than they just don't like the thought of it. That in itself is enough for them to get creative in their answer, so make sure you are prepared.
2006-06-27 05:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by diceman74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every thing is fair in love ,, put this words deep inside in ur mind ..next to ur brain lol ,, beleive that nothing will stop ur love unless u desided that .. even sometimes u can't control with ur love ,, even if there was a blood relation .. what's the problem ..
acutaly there is none ,, but we are who create problems for our selves .. don't care what people will say cuz people bullshits will never help u to step forward ur future ..
I see no reason to tell the parents cuz in that case u will have to explaine how much u love that guy and u can't break up with him bluh bluh .......
and I think if ur bf is ur cousin is better than if ur bf someone u don't know ,,
JMO.. good luck .....
2006-06-27 05:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck, I don't even know how far off a 3rd cousin by marriage is. What, is he your aunt's husband's nephew's son? (just kidding, I really don't know how it works.) Apparently, you and your man know how it works, however, so I think I might ask y'alls parents on what they think before starting anything. If you see him secretly and get pregnant or something, your family will find out anyway. If they don't approve you two might alienate your entire family on both sides. I don't see a problem with it myself.
2006-06-27 05:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by Spillski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love him right and all the best but does he loves you if it is yes then you are luck but what you are asking is you cannot share your feelings with your parents. ok do thing dont share anything with your parents but go on making real and good love after some years you will settle in your life as well as on your foot then ask your parents for the marriage if they agree no problem but if not you can marry without their permission but remember onething
love+study = money+life. Go all the way and all the best to you.
2006-06-27 05:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by ram_acoolguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I don't believe your cousin is your brother or sister anyway. I think it's okay to even marry your 1st cousin. If you luv each other than go for it and if you're old enough confront your parents and take it seriously.
Godd Luck!
2006-06-27 05:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur cousion..?
well thats a trouble my love..!
well according to me.. i know some people who are happily married and are cousions in there relationship..!
soo everything is fair ....... and love is war..!
soo it depends on u sweety..!
i think ur parent won't take this that easily..! well none of our parent would take that easy..! soo if u love this person... whole heartedly and this guy love u more than u love urself then no one in this world can stop u from geting together..!
but always remember.. think before each and every word u say to ur parents about this.. cozz this is not going to be that easy...!
take ur time.... and don't hurry on ur self...
best wish with each act..
love rose aurora..!
2006-06-27 05:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by jennifer valentino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not a cousin by blood then its okay. Your parents should be happy that someone makes you happy
2006-06-27 05:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best is to talk about it, and if u are old enough to decide u can get married, if not u will have to be patient till u both grow older enough to decide for yourself. Good luck
2006-06-27 05:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by rivers_of_life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you're not related by blood then it's okay. it's not a sin to fall in love with him so go on. but you guys don't have to hide this from your families. they need to know.
2006-06-27 05:38:29 · answer #10 · answered by AJ BA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋