usually a person who got involve in relationship would'nt be that serious at the begining for their 1st experiance... but when it reach certain time both couple split and either one of them could not forget of their partners... Therefor, either one of them have problem in getting a new partners...
2006-06-26 22:08:38 · 15 answers · asked by lady_givanchy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a very good question. Once your first love, always your first love. You will always compare others with your first love and you will miss your first love once in a while. A person never forgets her first love.
2006-06-26 22:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, you have seen everything unseen in the first love, you have done everything with that person, you have enjoyed everything in that person. Long time relationship. Nothing can be done. Only compromising with previous and latest versions will make you happy. Stop talking anything and everything about your previous experience, when you find a new one, as they cannot understand as to what happened in your case with your previous one and they feel uncared and unloved. Better come out of your previous things, if you want to enjoy your future.
2006-06-27 05:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine your hearts as two pieces of paper. "The two shall become one" - imagine those two pieces of paper glued together.
What happens when they are torn apart? What did they look like? Did they look like what your heart felt like? If you truly gave your heart to someone else, it's not likely to ever be the same again anymore than the torn-apart piece of paper looks like it first did.
Healing can come but, contrary to the old saying, it is not time that heals all wounds.
Breaking soul ties with one person such that you're not carrying and dragging around "baggage" is not easy as you may have learned! But it is necessary for a new, life-giving relationship with another person to form.
2006-07-08 12:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by WindWalker10 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first love is some sort of a benchmark that you base all others that come after, until you meet someone new that surpasses that benchmark your first love set, who then becomes your new benchmark.
Normally, your first love owns your heart because you remember your first time that you had feelings of joy, happiness, exhilaration, and then subsequent despair. Its something that you've never felt before, so naturally you'd remember it because it holds some special meaning for you, whether or not it ended badly.
2006-06-27 05:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpopcorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our first love IS just that; Our first love. The first person you fell in love with. Believe me it won't be your last time IN LOVE. It hurts when you break up. But there is someone for everyone. Just be happy for each other when they find someone because your time will come sooner or later. Just remember the hurt do not last.
2006-06-27 05:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by Chyna D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell u, coz most PPL remember the first thing in every thing, you know, like you remember the first time u act a play in the school if u did b4, and u remember the first time you went to the beach, and go on... so may be thats why we all remember our first love coz its the first
2006-06-27 07:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw, sweetie..........first loves have special places in your heart, but they don't own. Time shows you that. Seriously.......soon you will meet your true love.....THEN........your real love..........THEN.......your soul mate....etc,etc, etc. First loves are always very intense, and always vey serious. And yes, you never forget your first love!
The best part of having a heart means being able to love all of our lives. People 10 years from now, who you never thought of meeting, will show up, and rock your world!
1st experiences are worth wonderful ,unique memories, BUT, life experience........PRICELESS!
2006-06-27 05:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by MOI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi everyones first feeling of love will remain forever in our hearts thats because of one fact, a persons first love and them sweet feelings that remain with the memories, it can be just as hard to lose ones first love as well,but like all that we go trough in life we lean to move on get over the loss and try to love again , but we never forger that first love as long as we all live.
2006-06-27 05:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by tigermann43 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not always.. i was serious and was one sided.. we got married to two different people and both are seperated!! don't know whether the influence of first love!!? for me it seems whether influence or not ur first love is always sweet and memorable if the selection was good:)
2006-06-27 05:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by vijaychandran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not true.... my first love came to me when i was 18, and i was with her for almost 2 years..... i am almost 21 now, and she is married....... she had no problem finding someone else, and she siad i was her first love as well
2006-06-27 05:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by jim20032003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋