well see my friend has a problem and i wanted to know what she should do. like i dont know what to tell her. see shes dateing this one guy and hes like REALLY REALLY in love with her. But she doesent want to be with him anymore. but hes the type of freako guy that if he doesent get what he wants he thinks NO ONE else should have it either!! and he can do a lot of damage to someone and her if she brakes up with him. She realy doesent want to be with him anymore but shes scared that if she brakes up with him hes going to hurt her. Or everybody thats close ti her!! like shes scared if she gets a new boyfriend he can like beat him up or might even kill him. Hes just going to make her life a living hell. u know? what is ur opinion on what she should do??
2006-06-26 22:05:24 · 9 answers · asked by ruskakukla53 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
restraining order and a gun should cure it.
2006-06-26 22:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a she should talk to him and tell him that she doesnt like him any more and that she is scared of him, that will help him realize a bit of what bad he is causeing, but dont break up with him yet. if he persists in the behavior then telling him that she is going to put a restraining order on him will show him that if he wasnt the way he was then he could get closer to her instead of being forced out of her life. now he will try to get close to her any ways most likely do she should have a friend with her at all times to back her up and also threats to call the police might scare him off. hopefully he will understand what is happening and will change for the better but not under the thoughts of "if i change the she will come back" because when she doesnt and he thinks that way he will go back to his old state except even worse... that is the advice that i have now but i will think about other ways i would like it if we could talk about so i can maybe get a bigger or more clear picture if you think thaat is a good idea then please e-mail me at onefreakiekid3@sbcglobal.net i would really like to help you and your friend with this
2006-06-26 22:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by ellomotto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her go police and leave a constatation of the "maybe" can happen and from who, after that she must be strong enough and clear to break with him, if he touches her he can be caught by police and she shouldnt be alone for a time. she haves the right to choose as him but he cant force her nor intimidate her to stay with him so if he uses the force then let the law fall over him, use recorders, cameras or whatever is needed to have a proof in case he does something to her, i hope not.
2006-06-26 22:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Cristian R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-one should stay with someone out of fear, she should finish with him but take any threat he makes seriously and inform the police if he does.
2006-06-26 22:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by tanya h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell all the males in her family. Bet none of them are scared of this punk *** chump.
2006-06-26 22:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you starting up with a new guy
2006-06-26 22:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by jamesiewaimsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill the @$$hole first before he kills either of you.... lol
2006-06-26 22:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by lerroux 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.webmd.com/hw/emotional_wellness/te7751.asp
http://www.womenslaw.org/teens.htm
2006-06-26 22:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date her behind his back, i duno
2006-06-26 22:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋