hi, no jokes please. I'm not a pervert, I really love my husband
and he's the only one I've ever had sex with.we were virgins until we were married.
I have a really high sex drive and I know it's weird because I'm a girl, and If I had it my way I would make love with my husband about three times a day he likes the average at about once a day.
and it's not like I'm thinking about sex all the time either, I am just really attracted to him! I see him and I want to touch him.
we have only been married since December, do you think it's just a newly wed thing and I'll lose intest like everyone else?
my husband finds having sex in the middle of the day inconveiniant. whats wrong with me? I read somthing about too much testosterone, but I'm not hairy and am very womenly.
please help.
2006-06-26 21:44:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
It might feel unusual but you are one of many women with a healthy sex drive. Testosterone, although a male hormone, is present in women (in varying levels) and you might have higher levels without exhibiting some of the more obvious effects (such as increased body hair, aggressive/competitive behaviour etc.). Chances are this is not an excess male hormone thing. If it was it should not detract from your femininity. Many young women have high sex drives like (or exceeding) yours. The trick is to manage what are perfectly normal urges and channel the energy (gym, outdoor activity, painting etc.). Otherwise, it is not perverted to buy sex toys or masturbate to relieve the tension. Good luck!
2006-06-26 22:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Rich LeSaint 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Testosterone is a guy thing, so unless you're taking pills, that's not it. If you waited til you were married (good for you!), then it might be all the sexual tension you never release before then that you're still dealing with. In time, you'll mellow out. Your husband should consider himself lucky to get it that often though! ;)
2006-06-27 04:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mentioned that you were virgins when you married so maybe you're just making up for lost time. I wouldn't worry too much about it because it may be just the "honeymoon" stage but I would caution you not to tire your husband out. Manage your own libido and help yourself when you can.
2006-06-27 04:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Trillian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say give in to it if possible. get it all the time. i was like that when i first got married and after a couple yrs. it died down a little but still wanted it a couple times a day. i say hey when it's good, it's good. it can't be helped.
2006-06-27 04:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run with it. Try living with low sex drive. Your husband is a lucky guy.
2006-06-27 14:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hullo
sex drive varies in between people,it is not a shame to feel like this toward your husband,specially if you love each other,it is your right in life you know.
try to talk to him about how you feel,i think he will understand your concern for him,and he will value your emotions more.
Dr.solo
2006-06-27 04:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by baghdadcatcash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self-satisfy , Get a dildo or somethin? , when your guy is not available, see porn , You should feel lucky for having a strong sex drive
2006-06-27 04:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by Vio Prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about that. as times go, it will be better.
2006-06-27 04:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you! just have fun and enjoy it ;-)
2006-06-27 06:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by simi1808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋