I have just ended school about three weeks ago and my friends and I are organising a get-together at a lake. This guy I have had a huge crush on in years will be there. I want to impress the hell out of him, and look really pretty... What should I do?
2006-06-26 21:36:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello.
Steps
Get a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc.
Be yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not.
Don't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time.
Smile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!"
Flirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there.
Try to be around him often, such as sitting near him.
Show off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly.
Try to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys
often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them).
Go up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him.
Tell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together.
Be a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect.
Tips
Don't change yourself too much.
A good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question -
something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch!
Sit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested.
Listen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude!
Act confident but try not to seem stuck up.
'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it.
Ask him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out.
Consider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems.
Warnings
No guy likes a person who is snobby.
If he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was.
Don't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man.
Make sure to brush your teeth!
Be sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly.
Don't tell him lies.
If the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious.
You can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
2006-06-26 21:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to impress him! Just dress to impress, be yourself, do your own thing, leave him alone, but stay around. If he doesn't come to you, he's not for you. You're not bait, you're a person, and you deserve what's coming to you. If you lure him to one thing, he will want that, but not you. You can't make a person like you, he can only do that on his own. You just go have fun. Just let whatever happens happen. If you're stuck on him, you'll notice nothing else. You just might find something better! Do your thing, and leave him all the way alone. If he comes to you, then take it from there. You don't have to impress anyone if you are satisfied with youself! Get down, shake it, and see what happens. Just remember, no matter what happens, SAFE SEX!
2006-06-26 21:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's the obvious "be yourself" answer. You don't want him to fall for something you're not.
And there's the alternative. If you happen to know his favorite sports team, wear one of their shirts. That'll catch his eye for sure. Don't come on too strong, but don't ignore him either. Talk to him like you would anyone else, but give little smiles while you do. Joke, laugh, if you can. Be fun and cute, and yourself.
Good luck. :)
2006-06-26 21:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by darker_pegasus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that he has no gf.
Make sure that he's got eyes for you or you'll be wasting your time and energy.
Understand what he likes in a girl and try to please him without overdoing it.
Good Luck and Hunting !!!
2006-06-26 21:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get to know him first be interested on his hobbies and in the right time tell him how you feel about him
2006-06-26 21:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by jp c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get really dressed up and get your hair and nails and whatever and stuff and if you feel good you will look good.
2006-06-26 21:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by victor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crushing means: Hug him, kiss him, caress him, finally get f u c k e d. Get crushed again. That is all.
2006-06-26 21:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer lies in your nick... give him great "red" HEAD!!!
2006-06-26 23:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by sajid970 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋