IM 19 almost 20 and im pretty good looking iv been told by alot of girls and i make almost 50k a year but i dont brag or tell girls that unless they ask.Why cant i find a good girl, is it the whole nice guys finish last thing ?i just want a sweet girl to settle down with.are all girls my age just about sex or not because i want more than that.Oh and i dont want to wait and be patient for the right girl to come along i want her soon.
2006-06-26 21:20:39 · 14 answers · asked by texas boy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how am i full of myself thats not true.oh and i dont say anything like kids or settling down.
2006-06-26 21:35:49 · update #1
Maybe you're looking in the wrong places, or maybe you want to settle down too soon. Girls can be afraid of commitment too and talk about marriage and kids too soon can scare any girl off. And you may not want to be patient, but wouldn't that be better then settling for less than the right girl?
2006-06-26 21:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by smartsassysabrina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'll give you my version.
i'm 23 now. but i used to be a crazy 19 year old girl that had my sights set on a particular bad boy-the only one i would have agreed on settling down with, and the only guy that i had my sights set on. in the past four years i have changed so much that i scare myself. i am now immersed completely in an adult/professional world at work and i don't do the things i used to.
i stopped partying hard at bars, i stopped calling guys who couldn't care less.. i mean i wasn't a s1ut or anything back then but just a wild free thing that wouldn't let anyone 'put their claws in me'. now i'm sitting here, wondering the same thing. why can't i get a decent guy? i'm not ugly, stupid, or anything that i know of that should be preventing this from happening. i'm thinking i might need someone who's older and more mature and ready for the same thing. i would like a man who is thinking about marriage in at least the next 2 yrs (of course i don't advertise this either). so i'm going to try in the older market. i suggest you do the same, there are few girls in your age range that are ready for what you can offer-it isn't bad, you're ahead!
2006-06-28 03:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you are a bit early to settle definitely. Why not make some extra education, you have the possibility to reach a lot more than 50k per year!!
And the best way to find someone is to be at places you feel absolutely comfortable yourself.
Why not first make some experiences before really going serious on the "woman of your life"?? Take it easy...
2006-06-27 04:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by swissnick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a really nice guy and in this generation alot of girls want to keep their freedom as long as they can because around the age of 30 and 35 they say my biological clock is ticking and i WANT KIDS NOW. but our age it is too early for u to settle down you sound like you r off to a good start in life and hey you sound like my type.but like i was saying enjoy hanging out with the guys and appreciate the freedom u have now because it will come soon enough trust me.i am only your age group so go ahead enjoy life now stay young forever
2006-06-27 04:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by Janna B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know I met my husband when I was 21 but I wasn't really looking. Your wife to be will come into your life one day. My husband is a nice guy and that's what attracted me to him, you'll meet your girl you'll see.
If you come on too strong that can frighten a girl away just start friendships, it is better. You get to know each other with no strings attached. My husband and I were only Friends first
2006-06-27 04:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look not everyone in the net is loyal. now many of us know ur asset here. u shouldn't put it up.. and u are still young for a marriage.... u can school or work, u may get to know someone there. everytime dont approach for one. wait till someone approaches u. when u feel it, u will know... the one who loves u will be the one who approach u. it is better for someone to love u then u haunting.. wait dear. let the sweetheart look for u. may god bless u to get her.. just hang on. god must have found someone for u but it will be at the right time... maybe now is not.... all the best dear
2006-06-27 04:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Sanjana G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Josh, the guy who responded first is right, you're a bit full of yourself...and also maybe because you call them girls. Last time I checked, I was a 21 year old WOMAN...not a girl.
Oh, and patience is a virtue...I suggest you look into it.
2006-06-27 04:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,.....good things come to those who wait. Don't be so impatient that you end up with just the next girl that comes along, wait for the right one, otherwise you will have someone that my use you for whatever they can get or worse break you heart. Good girls are still out there, you just have to be patient enough to wait for her to come along.
2006-06-27 04:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by sgame00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not looking in the right places.I'm 19 and looking for a sweet and honest guy, I just cant seem to find him.
2006-06-27 04:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by oneladysin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Texas boy its not about the money maybe there is something else wrong with u maybe u r a whiney little show off
2006-06-27 04:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋