My best friend told me that he just asked a girl out called bethany and so she became his gf they broke up after 1month and so he asked me to go out with him and he said he wants to start a relationship with me I was kinda confused cause we used to be best friends, when my friends and everyone else found out that we are together they told me he is still with bethany and that he lied to me that they broke up I didn't wanna believe them cause I trusted my bf but one day one of my friends told me that a boy in the school saw bethany and my bf making out in the school hall where they were alone.It was the last days of school so I didnt go to school anymore after school I tried to call him and talk to him about it but his mobile was off all the time after 3weeks he came to my house telling me that how sorry he was that he didnt call me in 3weeks and he was alone and he was sick and all the things that people say about him and bethany is bull**** I dont know who to trust my friends or my bf!
2006-06-26 21:15:54 · 16 answers · asked by ViN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
too long
2006-06-26 21:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Maimee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear there is this thing called intuition, or gut feelings....which ever one that you have is proably the right one. It is difficult enough for you to have crossed the line with your friend, because most of the time it will never being the same. You should communicate with him and if possible with Bethany. If he couldn't call you for 3 weeks, then something definitely is wrong with the picture. Keep your head and and trust your friends, they wouldn't tell you something just to hurt you. Good Luck.
2006-06-27 04:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by sgame00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't skip the last days of school. You obviously struggle with grammer. Run-on scentence?! GEEZ!!
But anyway. Your friends are catty and not to be trusted. break up with whuzzhizface and one of them will be riding his bony pony in weeks. you should only worry about him
He's lying, but that's just because he's shy. He wants to ask you to go for a 3-way, but doesn't quite have the nerve. Do the 3 way, it'll be fun and sexy. Take pictures, post them, and do it again!
2006-06-27 05:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have more than one opinion against one i would trust the heavier side because they could have been telling the truth
and ur bf could have been with this girl Bethany within those three weeks and was lying trying to stall u until he was ready for u.if there was a witness involved believe ur frendz.
2006-06-27 04:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by Janna B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda had the same thing happen to me but mine said he was in the hospital so I asked for discharge papers a prescription or something the lil BIOTch had nothing so I let him loose. Youre boyfriend is lying to you. its one thing to have one person lie but to have a bunch of people say the same thing? its not a conspiracy against you they are trying to help you and if you dont believe them now they will never come to you in the future when things might matter the most
2006-06-27 04:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by redserenity0804 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't be too disturb by your emotional feelings. your bf is there to serve for a purpose that GOD only knows. measure him of the number of times he keeps on lying and he keeps his words. and weigh those factors whichever is greater . . . then it is for you to decide, same with your friend measure her the way you did with your bf. in short be practical. your existence must not be on their hands.
for in life there is ups and downs, but help yourself to die with the ups side. for LOVE is to . . .
L - live
O - on
V - viable
E - environment
be strong.
2006-06-27 04:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by Earl d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, boys, as that is what he is, can be such lying dogs at the age you are at. Run, don't walk to the nearest exit and rack this one up as a learning experience.
2006-06-27 04:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl! u need to listen to ur friends, they wouldn't lie to u if they're ur friends, dump his a** u can find a better guy then him to go out with, some guys r such who*e
2006-06-27 04:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your friends...you'll regret it if u dont. I mean really, your friends have no reason to lie to u and if they are then they're not really your friend. As hard as it is trust me listen to ur friends cuz i didnt and i got hurt...Good luck
2006-06-27 04:20:25 · answer #9 · answered by Kimmy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither trust your friend nor your bf.Just try to find out the truth yourself,then decide.
2006-06-27 04:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by mehdi mansouri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for three weeks he was too sick to pick up the phone and call? sounds like a load o' crap to me!
2006-06-27 04:17:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋