Why do Older women see the fact that their man has women and?

Question

girls as friends and friends only do they become suspicious and not trust him. is it him or the women they don't trust? If it's a new relationship and he's done nothing wrong should she be on his case?

Answer 1

My husbsnd made new friend that was a girl, He must have thought I was born yesterday I knew what was going on. He said he was just talking problems through with her,Im his wife why could he not do the talking thing with me, His mate comfirmed it was more than chatting!! So I decieded to try the talking thing with his friend!!

Answer 2

At a guess, from your question.. I would say this is in regard to a 'Younger Man' in a relationship with the 'Older Woman'!?!?

Woman are 'Naturally' suspicious of men having 'female' friends: and lets face it, in many cases with just cause!! If they have been hurt before by a guy who has cheated, especially with 'Just a good friend': then the woman again is going to be wary of any female friendship her partner has.

Be it male or female: 'Trust' is something that is earned, not given. If it is a new relationship, then trust, respect, etc has to be built and earned between the two: this will take time and effort on the part of both parties.

Nobody should be on 'anyone' case: they should be given leeway, until such time as any unfaithfulness is seen or proved!!

And a relationship is going to go down hill fast if it is based on suspicion and mistrust in any direction!!

Openness and honesty!! Communicate!! Don't seclude the other partner or be secretive about your meetings/nights out with your female friends: involve her in your friendship's: introduce her to your female friends, that will then increase her social circle to..but be aware of the 'dark secrets being exposed', of previous relationships etc.

Enjoy each others company!!

Answer 3

Generally speaking, man remains sexually active and potent more than women do. Women try to retain their good looks by plastic surgery and cosmetics while men don't have to. That is why women think that men are leaving them when signs of age start telling on them. Not all of men are philanderers, some remain faithful and some play around to prove their potency. It's human nature.

Answer 4

well i think its the women she dint trust because she thinks he is the best thing from sliced bread and she must think all his friends think like that as well!!! and there for be insecure. tell him to just reassure her and she should calm down if not i would not stick around as it could get worse but make sure he tells her this first good luck!!!!! xx

Answer 5

what do you think? men dont hang out with women alone. ( not if the woman isnt a fool that hes going with) Its not acceptable because they all think with their dick which is usually larger then there brains, Your not suppose to be having relationships with other women.

Answer 6

i know what u mean, my girlfriend hates me having female friends, and i can understand why, because sheloves me so much and to her every female is potentialy there to take me away from her, she trusts me, but she doesn't trust other women, i can see her point, she's never stopped me but i know she doesn't like it and i understand it from her POV - i don't have any female friends anyways but ones that i have had who i barely speak to are not part of my life, not because of my girlfriend, because of my personal opinions as such

Answer 7

Some women are jealous of other women taking their man, even if there is no grounds for it...

Answer 8

learn to trust girl or ull never keep a bloke

Answer 9

insecurity basically... if she looks like ester rantzen,,, and his lady mates look like kelly brook.,.. then i dont blame her giving him a hard time.,.lol. but also,he has chosen to be with her,,, and only goes home with her... so she should relax abit more...