Ok heres the story today at 9:00 o clock my GF whent skinny dipping with her girl cousin at her pool and i know her girl cousin and shes childish and loud so i know the brought atenttion.Do u guys think this is a very one minded selfish thing to do to me and that i should break up with her and that makes her seem more childish bc shes 14 and im 16 so tell me guys am i over reacting or what..
2006-06-26 20:28:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not over reacting and are wise to be conserned. You are both young and have alot of growing to do. You can either chose to do this together or apart. Let her know that you did not appreciate this type of behavior. If she is sincere in her relationship with you she will appreciate your values. And even more so your parents will appreciate the fact that you have learned well and know that this behavior is not appropriate or ok with you. Wheather it be a private residential pool or otherwise public. You want a lady by your side, and that behavor is not very lady like. I don't think your parents would like it either. And you really do want a girl friend you can bring home to the family that is not going to act inappropriately or embarass you. In front of your family or friends. And friends do and will hear about it and gossip / talk.
2006-06-26 20:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by ace 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Slow down horsy. you are overreacting just a little bit. c'mon are you just jealous you weren't there. They are just two young girls having fun. They didn't do it anywhere public just a backyard. If you are going to be upset about this maybe you should step back and think about yourself. You don't need to be this controlling at 16. 14 year old girls do stupid stuff. be a real man and support her no matter what.
2006-06-26 20:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both young and yes you are over reacting. It would be silly to break up with her for swimming nude in her cousin's private pool.. It wasn't like she was nude with guys all around... so what is the big deal??
2006-06-26 20:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should be that shallow, i understand how you would be offended by this. i don't think you should break up with her just for that. we all do things for fun without knowing that we are hurting the feelings of someone we love. if you think she's mature enough to understand your feelings for her, you should ask her to respect your feelings and to be more careful with what she does. but just because of what happen, it's not a very good reason why you should break up with her. there's more things to worry about than what happened! Good Luck!!
2006-06-26 20:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by an oriental guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah man, go for it. If your not happy with her actions and you feel like she is immature, then you wont be happy with her in the long run. Its a fact. these little things will just keep on bothering you. but if you feel like it is no big deal, and that your just bothered...talk to her first and see what she thinks about it.
2006-06-26 20:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by warriorwithin8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your upset by wot shes doing and if she does it again youll dump her,she could get the wrong type pf attenition being on young,so tell her yo be carefull theres a lot of weridos about,who are waiting for someone just like her.
2006-06-26 20:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Madonna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man, nothing happened. If that type of thing bothers you then tell her. If she keeps it up after that, well, the ball is in your court. But you would look bad dumping her for that.
2006-06-26 20:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by scottie2h2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, u shouldnt damage it off if u extremely care about her. Shes human, and anybody makes blunders. As for you, it really is an outstanding component that u by no skill raised ur hand to her. Arguments r good, they instruct that u take heed to eachother and performance diverse beliefs, yet dot damage it off if u care about her.
2016-11-15 07:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are being childish ... so she went skinny dipping, BIG DEAL
2006-06-26 20:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by Just B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes- when you get older you will be happy to have an adventerous gf like her as long as you are the only guy in her life i don't see a problem.
2006-06-26 20:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋