I'm like super shy, around everyone! I have friends...but when I'm not at school I dont like to do anything...my parents call me a loner, but I'm just not outgoing, what should I do to be more outgoing?
2006-06-26 20:09:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to become more confident, and decide that people want to have you around.
2006-06-26 21:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by ***** 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
gurl the only person who can help u become outgoing is u - the things u would never do in a million years start doing cause life's too short >u gotta live it upr> it'll be worth it because no matter how it turns out in the future ull look back on stuff u did and it could either be >> i didn't really do anything >>or it could be I cant believe i did that (with a laugh)> the thing is> do something! because it doesn't matter if they turn out good or bad because if it turns out bad> o well eventually u or others will get over it and it will be in the past sooner then u think and if it turns out good >>well that's jus another great story to tell!
2006-06-26 20:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by naughty_babygurl_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i won't give you any advice on how to be outgoing because me too, i'm not an outgoing person but i can tell you that being a confident one is not necessarily an outgoing type pf person too. you only have to boost your trust on your self, its just a matter of interacting with others and let them know the real you. i'm sure you're a nice person and wants to share some time with the group who has the same interests with you too. if you're parents call you a loner then that should be a challenge to you, show them that you're not. join in some organizations in your school that will help you eliminate that shyness (but be sure that it won't hamper your studies). have faith in yourself and "know thy self"!
2006-06-26 20:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by shijhenn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take acting classes, they will make you more outgoing. Call the YWCA and ask if they teach classes. Also, call the Community Colleges in your city and ask if they teach acting. Acting is a very good way to become more outgoing and chatty.
Good luck.
2006-06-26 20:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should find out the reason why. you should be more self confident. Don't be afraid. Be frankly with yourself. Remember: there are a lot of teens like u all around. U are not alone. Change your attitude to life & evrything will be all right!
2006-06-26 20:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by Elena M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eliminate Social Anxiety Shyness : http://SocialAnxiety.uzaev.com/?aDKG
2016-06-21 04:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok
I was like that just start playing some sports or try to join group ays like swimming or dating some one who loves attention.or enrole in some danceing clases.
2006-06-26 20:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by monay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT sucks sittin inside ur house,i had d same problem,i overcame it by acting confident n things that required me to get out of the house.once i went out i found out my fear was really very stupid n i was enjoin it .guess out i found a GF though she thought i was stupid. GOLDEN RULE TO OVERCOME UR SHYNESS-------------GET OUT OF D HOUSE ,WIT EVERY TRY U BECOME CONFIDENT,SITTIN IN D HOUSE WILL ONLY MANIFY D SHYNESS,NOTHIN COMES 4M THINKIN ABT A PROBLEM ONLY ACTION CAN GET U A LIFE-IT WILL WORK 100% -I TAKE GURANTEE
2006-06-26 20:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,I am the same way,only I am money,not many people can get me these days,so I get lonely.
$Moneydudeguy$
2006-06-27 09:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah me too but don't worry about it. just make friends with all the shy people wherever you go
2006-06-26 20:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by DeAd DiScO 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋