2006-06-26 18:19:45 · 15 answers · asked by devanshi p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
They find happiness in looking unhappy & in the heart of their hearts, they enjoy their assumed (not real) melancholic mood.
G.K. Chesterton has a word about it: 'Every pessimism has a secret optimism for its object'
So, the obect of everything we do is to be happy.
2006-07-05 18:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because people are never happy with the things they have...friends, family,a place to live, food, job....there are several other reason but people should think about these reasons before being unhappy and count there blessings. Yes, we are sometimes upset over things but sometimes we need to just deal with life. Just remember every moments that you spend sad is a moment that someone can't fall in love with your smile...said by an unknown source.
2006-07-05 16:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by brezzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" I am not unhappy." It is not everyone but there are a lot. Happiness is with in any ones reach and can easily be found when someone wants to find it. I am not sure exactly how you mean unhappy so in general, a person has to step outside of the box and take hold of their life and then when they find themselves, they will find happiness. You can't totally rely on someone to make you happy.... Best wishes~
2006-06-27 01:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by ~Amberlen Rio` ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two schools of thought come to mind. Today It is said you may have a chemical in-balance. I think that in order to be happy begins with being happy with who you are. If you're not happy with who you are, you'll never be happy. So find out what it will take to make you happy with yourself. Try to fix it before you turn to drugs. Drugs are a bandage for a problem. They may stop the bleeding, but won't heal the wound. Don't worry, be happy! You're question is tougher than the chicken and the egg.
2006-06-27 01:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by solapine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all r not unhappy.Some times we reach that level by surrounding are self with stuff we want or cant have that is where unhappiness comes in. Be happy with what u have not want.
2006-06-27 01:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by cokesprite2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its not a perfect world!
Some ppl don't have what they want or have lost someone they care about or r sick and so on!
Maybe they don't like there body or there house and so on this can go on and on!
BUt really we should all be happy because we r alive!
2006-07-05 22:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by hot_celina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure but we are all unhappy sometimes.
2006-06-27 01:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you didn´t experience unhappiness, how would you know what happiness is!
2006-06-27 01:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many reasons, but maybe because we are all fools for worrying so much.
2006-06-27 01:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by The Slingshot Effect 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because things don't work out the way you plan it. the dream you had is not coming true.
2006-07-04 17:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by elaine p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋