I met this incredibly beautiful and lovely gal. She is everything I am looking for in a girlfriend. You heard of people saying "there's no such thing as an ideal bf/gf so people find a person who is close to the ideal mate."? Well I have found my ideal girl. She loves the pretty the same hobbies as I do. She have the same religion as I do. She is funny like I am. She is perfect. It's not a dream. The only problem (and it's a huge problem) is that she's taken! I am not a homewrecker and I dont like to be that guy who she called up to complained about her bf if they do have problems. Sometimes I just look up in the sky and say "Good one!" Ofcourse I am talkin to the man up stairs. I know he's powerful but man,stop teasing me with chicks like this!
2006-06-26 18:13:38 · 7 answers · asked by epicwolf 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know i felt the exact same thing about a girl once. Except i didnt let it go for 6 years. Thats right i waited around day and night just waiting for a chance for this girl to notice me and or become "untaken". Through my time in some very difficult relationships i have found an enividable truth that is sometimes hard to hear but always works out in our favor. I know it is the same thing that has been said in your life time as well as in many movies and books. If it was meant to be than it is meant to be. There is nothing more frustrating in this life than, i feel than to watch the women of your admiration in the arms of someone else. Even more so if he is a total loser. But none the less she has chosen him for a reason. Even if those reasons seem trivial and unjust in our left our hearts. My advice. Enjoy her company as a friend and do not be a driving force that will seperate her from the man she is dating. Because in the long run it could cause alot more problems than it is worth. Try and not force a relationship out of her. Enjoy her company and keep your eyes open for other possible interests. This helps you in two ways. One in teaches you not live in the realm that is puppy love (if that is what it truely is even though we dont know it) and two through her eyes if she sees you as a possible interest then the idea of you seeking out attention from another woman might spark some rather wanted emotions. Besides, and take this from someone who truely knows, we as a species can never see beyond what is in front of us. You see this great girl but behind her is an even a better one. Even though by me telling you this now you cant beleive it. I know becuase after that girl i waited on for so long who was to me my goddess, i accepted the face she would never like me the way i did her. The day i said you know what screw her... That next day i met my wife. And now i can truly say she is perfect. I wish you the best of luck and hopefully my advice gives you inspiration to keep fighting the good fight. Best of luck...
Laz
2006-06-26 18:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by John Doe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, instead of thinking that God is trying to "tease" you, think that maybe your being shown that there ARE fantastic women and when the time is right, and your ready, she'll be there......also, sometimes we "think" we know what we want or what's best, but if we truely believe in a higher being who is watching out for our best intrest, then we need to trust in that and as they say "wait upon the Lord and he will renew your strength"
Good luck and maybe she has a good friend or sister......
2006-06-27 01:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by mammajamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do feel like He is sometimes. But, isn't just an easy cop out to blame it on Him? I just always tell myself the typical, standard things and I feel better. "God never gives you more than you can handle." I believe that, but I also believe that he really, really pushes it sometimes. " Sometimes an un-answered prayer is the answer to your prayer." I believe that too, but it can still be hurtful. Chin up, good luck with the ladies.
2006-06-27 01:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens a lot, and it stinks. But someone better will come by, that's what I tell myself...even though I'm atheist. Good luck
2006-06-27 01:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by roverriffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mess back. the church [gods messenger...]dictates the institution of marriage!
2006-06-27 01:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he does that to me too.
2006-06-27 01:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by mybebegwen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for he to not be taken(hint,hint)
2006-06-27 01:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by J.D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋