What should I do?

Question

For the past couple of months, I've been seeing a 22 year old guy. Nothing sexual has ever come up. I'm 16. A few days ago, I got him a present for his 22nd birthday. I just got a smile, and he walked away, back across the street to his friend Dawn's house. they sat outside all night, and he didnt say 2 words to me at all. I got so hurt that he could joke around and hug and fool around with her, from wat i could see on his porch across the street, and just leave me there, that I took off the necklace he had given me, handed it to him, and walked home. I think I over-reacted, but he won't talk to me or even look at me. If our relationship has ended, I still want to be able to talk to him and be friends wth him. What should I do?

Answer 1

First off, depending on what state you live in, if you and the 22 year old had sex it could be considered statutory rape, which is often a felony offense.

OK, now for your immediate situation. . .

This guy is a D*CK! He's messing with your head. I realize you are young, but no experienced woman would put up with:
1-Watching a guy she is supposedly "seeing" take a present from her and not say "thank you", or at least pretend to appreciate the present. That is f*cked up.
2- A guy she is supposedly seeing hanging out with another girl all night, playing and joking around with this girl, and ignoring the girl he is supposedly seeing. That is f*cked up too.

You are not over reacting. Seriously. I mean, I'm not hating on the guy - he is obviously good with the ladies, a "player" if you will. Look what kind of emotion he evokes in you. He knows how to play the cocky-arrogant-as*hole role well. And, surprise, it gets him some success. . .

Look, save yourself a ton of heartbreak and leave this dude alone.
And if you still like him, watch how quickly he tries to get you back if you ditch him. We always want what we can't have. . .

Age doesn't matter when two people are in love, but he doesn't love you - no man would treat his girl like that if he loved her.

Finally, why would you want to be friends with someone that doesn't appreciate you? Look how he dissed you when you gave him the present. . .

Answer 2

I had almost the same thing happen 2 me, I'm 18 now... but when I was 16 I was dating a 22 year old and we had a fight cause he was spending his time with the girl next door to him and would not talk to me when she was around, we broke up for not even a week, and he came to my house one day and told me that he was sooo sorry and he didn't know what got into him. And he told me that he couldn't stand us being apart, and now we are married with a baby on the way

Answer 3

This guy looks playing you, he's not intense about something and he's a participant, in the subsequent difficulty, don't be so quick to deliver p.c.., it really is a mistake that early, be definitive about the position you stand previously getting intense, make the strains between you sparkling and then get into the courting stuff. For this difficulty, attempt being instantly ahead a sparkling, he's a participant, each little thing's a comic book tale! So be agency yet no longer recommend and be sparkling to him about what you want, tell him to delete the p.c.. and be finished! enable him determine out in his own that being a participant doesnt get him mind-blowing chicks like you!

Answer 4

Casanova seeks only weak women; you were strong enough to keep sex out of the relationship. He couldn't use you up so he walked over and got with Dawn (the one you should feel sorry for).

You hurt now, you say??? You would've hurt 100 times worse had you given it up to him. Either way, he would've moved on to the next piece: be grateful it wasn't you he used up.

Casanova's walking human garbage, you're better off without him.

Also, try finding a guy close to your age: you two can relate far better to stuff around you and all.

Answer 5

Okay, this guy is 22 years old and you are 16. Can you say "JAIL BAIT"!

Maybe this is just a really smart guy who doesn't want to go to jail for statutory rape. Let's say you guys do hook up (sexually) and then for whatever reason you get upset with him. All you have to do is tell one person about your liason (a teacher, priest, friend, parent, cop, school nurse) and he goes to the po-po.

If he (and you) are truly smart you will be just friends until the day you turn 18. Then, walk over to his place wearing some really hot outfit and I guarantee you won't be ignored!

Answer 6

Girl ur 16, get over that dumbass you'll find smoeone better than him trust me, when i tell u something like this okay and a 22yr.old girl u went real low and u know what else u should regret u ever gave him something for his B-day. From the looks of it he just wants u as trophy Girlfriend so move on and forget about it him he's an asshole

Answer 7

What should you do? You should quit hanging out with the man across the street for starters! You should quit fooling your self into thinking you still want to be friends and talk to him while your at it. You're at two totally different life stages, everything between you two is difficult. Let it go.

Answer 8

Ouch, I'm sorry you had to go through all that. Do you think you were on different pages? Maybe you thought you two were a couple, and he didn't think that.

Answer 9

It is over accept it and move on, this wont be the first time in your life that you will have to act in this manner, the world is full of a*******.

Answer 10

yes your rite the relationship has ended but in a couple of weeks call him & say you still wanna b friends