if a christian believer loved a girl who said she is good and obedient to the word of God obay to the husband, and live as a good Indian christian life style wife Love took place for 6 years waiting for her as she wanted to earn to her patents till her 33yrs age. but since from the marriage day she doesn't display the same charector and promises she said while on love but its o.k as people change and cant be 100% truthful to their promises but she behaved worst and worst degrading husband and uplifting her parents and her house hold and never wanted to live with the husband but rather wanted to live separately in the place whare she wanted to live with. Execpt with the Marriage bed (Honoured Sexual relationship with Husband wife by God) she never live as a average wife at least but tortured me by humiliating, degrading etc., we were seperated for 4 years and still she didn't change but still I forgave and lived to gather for three years but she never changed should I need to divorce.
2006-06-26 17:52:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I would say you have grounds, she doesn't want to live with you or have sex with you, two very vital ingredients in a happy marriage.
2006-06-26 17:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Chryss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read your long question 4 times now and I still can't grasp what you are asking. I think though all the broken English your question might be.
"should you divorce someone who doesn't love you??"
answer----well, I would definitely look into it, if I were you.
as for grounds for divorce.. I think the law calls it irreconcilable differences.. as for God's law, if she has committed adultery, during those 4 years you were separated, then you are free, however, if you are a minister, you might need to step down from your position in the church.
2006-06-26 18:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you are a minister?? It will probably end your ministry if you divorce. I think that your wife is not a christian as she said, and now you know it.. Unless she gets into adultery you really should keep trying, but you have to be true to your concience and the Lord. Pray a lot and seek God's will. It is very difficult, but God will guide you..
2006-06-26 17:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by † PRAY † 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what do you know...I was reading about this today...from what I understand...if a spouse commits adultery...you can divorce...but God urges you to try to save your marriage...Remember your vows? To have and to hold from this day forward; for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; until we are parted by death." Well God expects you to live by this...And I do understand that you cannot remarry unless your spouse is dead...but I am not the person you should be asking...U shud be asking God for guidance...he is the only one that can help you with this...read your scriptures on divorce and pray about it...God understands your pain...
2006-07-09 22:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a minister and a christian at that, you shouldn't ask this question because you already know the answer to that. If a wife betrays you and commits adultery - you should divorce her. Its as simple as that.
2006-07-09 01:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first guess is that someone else must write your sermons. If not; I am glad I don't have to suffer through one of them. Your writings might as well be in Greek for I don't understand it either.
I will hazard a guess that your wife didn't understand not one day of you life together. Don't get a handsome interperter. I think you need one in your house for your marriage to work.
2006-07-10 08:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by Pepsi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee not to hard - but your asking the wrong place not to send biz away from here but ----- you need to have your nose in the book the Good Book --- and you already know what you have to do -
Matthew 5:32
and then
1Ti 3:1 to 3:7
and namely
1Ti 3:5 (For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)
2006-07-09 12:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by dav_in_eden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adam sinned and the surroundings turned against him. Animals became cruel - land gone barren etc. etc. So, if you are a sincere minister to your Lord, examine yourself to find what is wrong in you to happen this in your life. Rectify ourself and the rest will be alright.
2006-07-10 17:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by latterviews 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not consider yourself degraded. Hosea had a wife that was terrible. God loved him. today we read of Hosea's faith and love for God. His life reminds us of God's faithful love for an unfaithful Israel. Perhaps through your persistance God is glorified while she is shamed. This does not mean that you are shamed, quite the opposite. For if you reflect God's faithfulness he glorifies you.
2006-06-26 18:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by unicorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the divorce papers require a reason, at minimum, irreconsciable differences. They probably screwed around on each other and their jealousy tears them both apart.
2006-07-10 07:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by kurtantonmaus3453 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋