2006-06-26 17:44:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Sex can be very confusing and scary if you are young or if you are new to having sexual relationships in your life.
Sex never feels very wonderful unless you are in a rock-solid, safe, comfortable place in your mind and your heart.
Meaning, if this is just "some guy" or you know deep down that he is a jerk or that he'll brag to his friends, etc., you should not allow yourself to be in that situation because it will just emotionally hurt you.
Your first time having intercourse could be way different from any other girl or woman you talk to. But if you are a young girl/teen, then sex probably won't be all that great at first. It's not a horrible pain but it's uncomfortable and it's an unfamiliar feeling. It takes thoughtful, caring, loving, PROTECTED people to be able to learn how to enjoy sex together.
It takes mature people to have safe sex and to know what they do and do not feel comfortable doing.
You might consider discussing this with a health professional like someone @ Planned Parenthood or your school nurse or counselor. An aunt, a friend's big sister or mom. Your parent. It is something that you shouldn't decide alone. It's a big step and you need to take time to decide what to do.
Don't ever let a boy talk you into something you don't want to do.
Too many girls think that they'll be lonely or alone or that they'll never get another boyfriend if they don't sleep with the one they have. That's untrue.
So just take your time and I hope that you're over 16 or so!
2006-06-26 18:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by Q&ALady 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It was literally over before I knew we had started... And then I cried and cried and cried. I had just given away something that I had carefully guarded for 18 1/2 years to a guy I didn't love under awful circumstances.
2006-06-26 17:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts like hell. how old r u . the first time i had sex i was 13. i got pregant.the guy didn't want the baby. so i gave her up .sex is when u get married.2 the one u love.so think alot before u do it . good luck. hope u make the right choice.
2006-06-26 17:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by pitbullloverloverofpits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you're being ripped in half. Then, you can't walk for two days!
Sex or childbirth- which ever you're talking about.
2006-06-26 19:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by 4kidsmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like a big weight has been lifted off my shoulders!
2006-06-26 17:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by Marky-Mark! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Makes me feel lovable.
2006-06-26 17:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what your talking about is it sex our giving birth
2006-06-26 18:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by Butterfly Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I sure enjoyed it.
2006-06-26 17:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by parshooter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it feel's great!
2006-06-26 17:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by sam d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing great--weird.
2006-06-26 17:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋