We have many differences of opinions.Dont have sex often.Not inetrested with each other.But we dont want to break also.What do we need do now to imporve our relationship?Or is it normal among couples?
2006-06-26 17:39:41 · 19 answers · asked by Cool Lad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
And you probably both sleep in pajama's too.
2006-06-26 17:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No marriage is perfect. Bring the romance and passion back. Start dating again and find things to do that you both enjoy. The more you do to romance your wife, the more she will do for you. Send flowers,take her out for a romantic dinner, go dancing. Anything that makes you laugh together and have a great time. Don't give up a marriage because there are a few bumps in the road.
2006-06-26 17:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both probably lost interest because it got boring. You need to spice it up a bit. Go to a sex toy shop or visit www.loverslane.com where you can buy toys, books, and clothing in the privacy of your own home. A friend of mine works there and they have great products. Don't be afraid to explore new ways of pleasuring each other, and let go of all your inhibitions. You may find a new-found interest in sexual acts with your wife.
2006-06-26 17:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and I are the same way, but in order to improve a relationship you have to be intimate with each other, it reduces stress, brings you closer together, and actually gives you energy for the day. Good Luck and God Bless
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2006-06-26 18:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love takes work. There was something about her that drew you to her and made you decide that you wanted to spend the rest of your lives together. Revisit those things. Be selfless. Try and become interested in what she is interested in. It will take work but it is worth it. Good luck.
2006-06-26 18:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not normal and if you don't do something about it your marriage is headed for disaster. You both need to communicate with eachother and take interest in eachother. If you are having a tough time with it get into marriage counseling asap.
2006-06-26 17:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for things to slow down but it isn't normal to completely lose interest.
You need to break away from the world together and find a common spark.
Best of luck and God bless.
2006-06-26 17:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by bobhayes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that!! You see each other and its like sometimes seeing a stranger in your house, but sometimes you want to be with one another then you hate each other guts, not truly hate but you know...
My advice to you would be to go to church and hold each other and pray for one another to gain the spiritual bond then everything else will fall into place : )
God Bless
2006-06-26 17:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by *butterfly* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some interesting responses there.
Think about what brought you two together in the first place. Revisit some old places that you both loved.
2006-06-26 17:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'snt exactly normal. We are married for 2 years lived together for 2 yaers before we got married and still new for each other. why don't you try every new thing for each other start from 0.
2006-06-26 17:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
toys, or a vacation by your self. each pick a place you want to go where the other has no intrest and you both agree on a set number of days and then leave. and rember to bring back a present for them
2006-06-26 17:43:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋