I commited the mistake of having sex with my GF's sister. he likes me, and wants me to break up w my GF, to become her BF, but I can not do it, I love my GF.
Jessica ( my GF's sister ) blackmails me, if I do not have sex when she tells me, she threatens me with her sister ( my GF).
Jessica does not want to stop, she is bent on breaking me up from my GF, I can not bear the pressure. Should I break up with my GF to become Jessicas"?
Please, I need honest advise, my soul is spliting, I feel like Jessica really owns me, what should I do???
2006-06-26 17:35:26 · 19 answers · asked by What you are looking for. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be honest with your girlfriend. Tell her what you did, and take it like a man. Don't mention what Jessica is doing, or it's going to make you look even worse. Once you admit it, she has nothing to hold over you ... and I'm betting that she wouldn't think you would tell her.
A lot of your girlfriend's reaction depends on how long you were together when it happened, and how long it's been since you've been keeping this secret from her.
If she dumps you, take it as a lesson learned. If she doesn't, you have a keeper, and you have a LOT of work to do so that you can earn her trust back again.
Take it as a lesson learned either way. Cheating is horrible, but it gets really ugly when it's with a sister ...
2006-06-26 17:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Aussie Mommy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A typical male would say see if you can do em both... but a real answer would be to be upfront with your GF and tell her what happened and what's going on now. Once it's out in the open her sister has nothing on you.
2006-06-26 17:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by Just B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you've gotten yourself into a pickle....haven't you.
Look, this may sound harsh, but cut your losses with both of them and start over with someone new. You're always going to have Jessica looming that over your head. Don't even think about writing in additional details that you really, truly love your GF.....because if you did, you wouldn' t have fcked her sister in the first place.
2006-06-26 17:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, tell your Gf's sister you didn't mean what you did and would appreciate if she would stop, maybe she will agree, but if she doesn't tell your gf that you made a mistake and now she needs to talk to her sister about her feelings
2006-06-26 17:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by xobeachxbum30xo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man..she is one sick puppy and you are a fool...but hopefully this will teach you not to betray someone you are suppose to love. Tell your girlfriend the truth in front of her sicko sister....Who would want a sister like that?? .....Anyway...be careful but do it now because next you know she will be getting pregnant to you and then more lives will be ruined. Don't give in to her..tell her you are going to admit what you did and she herself may decide that she would rather keep it a secret and hopefully she will just back off without having to hurt her sister....it's hard to imagine that she would really care what its going to do to her but you never know.
2006-06-26 17:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by vmmc_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your GF. In frunt of her sister. then you can tell how that one mistake caused the domio efect to the repet of that mistake. and then you tell her that you did it out of love for her and didn't wont to lose her. You should also tell how her sister blackmailed you to get more. then she might be so caught up in her sister's actions and go after her. but NEVER say that your crime looks better then her sisters crime.
2006-06-26 17:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by gretch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell Jessica you have a fantasy and is she wants you to keep having sex with her then she has to fulfill your fantasy of sharing her with a friend. Before that you get with your friend and tell him your real problem but that if he will help you then you can get him in bed with Jessica. Once that's happened then you tell Jessica you're done with her and if she tells your G/F that your friend is going to back you up and say she is a liar and that it all started because she wanted you to join him and her in sex.
2006-06-26 17:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what I think honestly.
I think you need to tell your Girlfriend the TRUTH. I know it may hurt, she may go nuts and break up with you, but tell her thats why your coming to her now about it rather than later. Then if she happens to break up with you, try to work things out so you can get back together ya know.
I wouldnt go for the isster at all, all she wants you for is sex and I dont think it is right at all.
But, I recommend tell Jessica that you arnt going to do it, then go to your GF and tell her about it all!
if she loves you, things will be ok..
2006-06-26 17:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by ixpickxmyxnose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa man you're in some deep crap. I can't see any possible way out of this. Ya gotta tell your girl. Aand make sure it never happens again.
2006-06-26 17:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep on tearing both of them up for as long as you can... don't ever look back. You got to be tough, don't let the sister get one over on you... just keep on tagging them both for as long as possible...
2006-06-26 17:39:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋