I broke into my girlfriends voicemail, and was right about some cheating, she even denied it until I proved otherwise, then she apologized, but now she is mad and doesnt trust me either, is there anything left or should it be over? She has lied time and time again in the past, and everytime I suspect it I cheat as well, is anyone in the right here?, someone help me please.
2006-06-26 17:29:54 · 19 answers · asked by I love money 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's lied to you before and you had to lower yourself to break into her email or voicemail, dude, it's time to break up. This is only going to get uglier as time goes on. Either she's not happy or you're not, either way, you are making each other unhappy. Cut her loose, your sanity and health are more important than wondering what the heck she's doing behind your back. You don't trust her and she obviously doesn't respect you. Time to move on.
2006-06-26 17:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like betrayal after betrayal. In the end, it doesn't matter who did what, but how you feel deep down inside. If you ever have a hint of doubt in your heart, you won't last. You can't cheat if she does, it will just go around and around. Start completely over. Stay away from each other for two weeks, come back together (if you both feel the same still), that way you can get your kinks out and find your true feelings for each other. No matter how much you want to be with somebody, sometimes your heart tells you differently in the end.
2006-06-26 17:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by Brandi G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont cheat because you ASSUME she is doing it. And if you KNOW that she is... you guys dont need to be together. Life is to short to live like that. And the best way to prove love is through trust... No relationship will ever last without trust. You guys need to sit down and talk. A serious, HONEST talk. Then go from there....
Good luck hun!
2006-06-26 17:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. You have completely bottomed out as far as trust goes, and that's the cornerstone of a good relationship. No, you should have not broken into her vm, but you did and caught her. Just let it go, move on and find a girl you can trust and one who trusts you.
2006-06-26 17:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do it and justify it, so men can do it and its o.k. I feel you were in the right especially when you prove she was cheating . I wouldnt be with a cheating woman ,but if you cant let go of her go make her azz pay
2006-06-26 17:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by pistol pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably over. You've both violated the other ones' trust.
Unless you can sit down together and restore that trust, there's no more relationship. Sorry, man.
Best wishes and God bless.
2006-06-26 17:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by bobhayes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not for you and you will probably break up someday in the future if not now. She doesn't trust you? She was the one that cheated. She's not worth your love.
2006-06-26 17:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by maya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were wrong for going into her voicemail... you should never violate anyones personal stuff. if you mistrusted her so much then you should of dumped her. you we're both wrong.. cheated on one another.. and dont obviously want each other or you wouldnt of cheated.
2006-06-26 17:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by tansyangeni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it, trust me it seems like it was over a long time ago.
2006-06-26 17:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up wit her. She cheated on you and when she denied it u didnt believe her so you two dont trust eachother. break up so you can find someone you can trust.
2006-06-26 17:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by rootbeerluvr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋