my sister is 18 she works from 9-5 every week and on weekends she spends all her money on alcohol. she is becoming abit crazy and sleeping around alot. she slept with these 5 different guy from bout febuary and they are all related. 3 of them are brothers and the other 2 are their cousins, i personally think shes abit out of control...is she??
2006-06-26 17:25:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yeah she is but she will grow up she is just exploring right now
2006-06-26 17:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really is out of control. Though it is not widely viewed these days that drinking and sleeping around is bad, the consequences can be dire. She will have a lot of effect from drinking a lot. Just one shot of alcohol kills 10,000 of your brain cells. And unlike all the other cells in out body, they do not make more. Neurons, as they are called, are very crucial for the body to think and function.
Sleeping around is one thing. Many diseases can be caught and she will lose a lot of respect, from others, and eventually from herself. She will also grow to regret that she made herself so venerable and look so bad. But within the family is a completely different thing. I do not know where to begin.
I have met many with problems similar to your sisters. I experienced some of the same things myself (Except not with relatives) so I know what I am talking about when I say that the only answer for the stage your sister is at is professional and educated help. She may not be a danger to others, but she is damaging herself.
It is sad that I am only 19 and I had to learn the things I did the hard way. She needs inferference from family that has good morals. She needs help to find self confidence in other ways. She needs to learn self-respect.
2006-06-26 17:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Just Loving Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, sounds like she may have a problem with alcohol - if she's spending all her money getting drunk. Her lifestyle is also unsafe if she's sleeping with 5 different guys in the same period of time. You or your parents should talk to her and try to get her to slow down and get some counseling.
2006-06-26 17:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she belongs on Jerry Springer.
2006-06-26 17:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by pink..elephant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she is drinking so much. There is a possibility it is a cycle, she gets drunk, does something stupid, so she feels guilty and stupid, so she gets drunk again, then she does something stupid... on and on.
Talk to her and let her know people are starting to talk.
She will grow out of it, but make sure she is being safe.
2006-06-26 17:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats kinda bad, tell her that the alcohol is bad for her body and sleeping w/ her family members is going to give her a bad rep and that if she dosnt stop shes going to loose your support (you dont have to quit loving her but you and your parents have to stop giving her money and allowing her to drink, if she lives w/ you,) hope i helped
2006-07-03 04:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Leesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is out of control.. she needs to be helped. you say she is drinking alot? she may be an alcholic... also can mess up your judgement. sounds to me that something happend to her in life and shes letting herself go.. get her help.. make sure your parents know or an elder.
2006-06-26 17:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by tansyangeni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bad news to me. Ask your parents to Brainwash her others AIDS would become her new friend!
2006-06-26 17:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by Dogman 61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm let me think, YEA. Get her help (or get me her number whichever) Is she a stripper or a hooker holy crap! Shes wild, too wild tell her to tone it down a notch.
2006-06-26 17:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by rootbeerluvr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes she is, maybe not to the brothers but to anyone else she is. She seems to need help and fast.
2006-06-26 17:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's starting to be quite a slush... (a sl*t and a lush)
2006-06-26 17:28:58 · answer #11 · answered by BabyFirefly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋