i know i need help but no one will listen?

Question

i'm 15 yrs old and i'm bullimic and i also cut and i hate being like this but when i told my friend he just said i'm acting and i need to stop acting like a two yr old and i can't tell my mom because she'll stick me in rehab so i'm stuck like this because no one will help me

Answer 1

GOOD MORNING, Telltaleheart!
Or, I should only be a little more quiet. Shhh,
good morning, Telltaleheart.

I have prepared for you a tray of a breakfast.
Along with a small juice to delight your palate is a waffle, syrup and a slice of a bacon. I have also made a small adornment of a flower to bring glee to your sleepy eyes.
Good morning, Telltaleheart.
Telltaleheart, I want you to know, I love you.
Telltaleheart, If there is some other item you wish to prefer, I would be happy to fetch it for you?

Telltaleheart, I will just move it out onto the veranda where you can enjoy the view of the ocean and palm trees swaying in a gentle breeze.
I love you, Telltaleheart

Ok, I have some errands to run this morning,. While I am away, don't be surprised to find a couple thousand dollars stuffed in your pockets as you get ready for the day. You might like to think of some things you want to have?

Telltaleheart, I was planning to share with you this evening a night out with dancing and a fine wine. I hope you can make it?

Jake

Answer 2

Maybe you need to be stuck in rehab. Realize that you have a serious problem and need help before you seriously harm yourself or kill yourself.

I am double your age and even though I did not deal with depression as you clearly are I know people who did. Trust me when I tell you that there is some really cool stuff ahead of you in life, and it really is worth living. Seek help to guide you though this difficult time and one day you will be enjoying life and will find it hard to understand why life seemed so bad.

Here is a preview of what is to come in your life:

- Your first apartment.
- Your first home.
- Your first true love.
- Your first new car.
- Your first cool job that pays well.
- Your first unforgetable vacation.
- Flying first class.
- Staying in a luxury hotel.
- Starting a family.
- Being a mom, aunt, godmother.
- Making a difference in the world.
- Achieving a goal that took years to acomplish.

Like I said, there is some cool stuff ahead for you. All you need is a positive attitude and to believe in yourself. Good luck.

Answer 3

Well, what is so bad about going to see a therapist? You say you want help and can't get any.. so you should consider the the way that you can get help.. I think you should tell you mom and see a therapist--that will help you. You need to do something and that sounds like it is the best option. I have been to rehabs with my friends and they really did fine.. you don't have to stay--you can be outpatient and attend regular counseling, it can work out for you if you open you mind and take a chance. I mean--what is the worst thing that could happen??--you could be free from this illness>>>>>.so please get the help you need. I don't know what else to say xcept that I am sorry for your pain. I think you will find that your loved ones will listen.

Answer 4

do you see how many people here are listening to you ? please give your mom the chance to help you, sweetie. take it from someone who tried won't let any help. if you let this go untreated you stand the risk of living a very painful and lonely life. one that will most likely include at some point self-medication(alcohol/drug addiction),and maybe even suicide. do not be afraid of in-patient hospital programs as they will provide you with a safe place to deal with the ROOT of your problems.you will also find support from people who are dealing with the same kind of things you are. you are not alone. i am 43 now, and i an leading a normal, happy life. this was not the case for more than 1/2 of it. i did not start dealing and understanding problems unit i suffered a complete break down in 1993, which include 4 major suicide attempt in 9 months. i was hospitalized against by will (committed) as it wasn't pretty. after a long fight to get control of myself and my life (years of hospitals, meds, and out-patient day therapy (6hrs a day) i finally got better. i have been okay now since1997. the battle would not have been so brutal,i believe, has i had sought help in my teen years.
there is a great new( relatively) band called BLUE OCTOBER. YOU SHOULD GOOGLE THEM and listen to their music and lyrics. they deal very candidly with mental health issues. i just recently found out about them after hear a song called "HATE ME TODAY" I FOUND A LOT OF COMFORT LISTENING TO THEM.EVEN AFTER ALL THESE YEARS OF BEING WELL. I THINK YOU MIGHT BE ABLE TO RELATE ALSO.
do not be afraid, give your mom a chance to hear you first, i am sure will listen as well. get help sweetie, i wish now i would have !

Answer 5

Your story sounds very real.It may take till you are twenty to get over the cutting. The bulimic problem is often fatal after many years. I am guessing you are better off in the hands of doctors and get your mind cleaned out. The hospital is the rehab you need so don't worry about Mom.

Answer 6

First, you need to know you will always have someone to help you, even us strangers. Second rehab sounds so bad and terrible but it is truly what you make it. If you go with a positive attitude and look at it as a chance to make friends with kinda tha same problems, it ain't so bad. I know people who fight it and talk about how it is like jail and so on but really! I think if you tell your mother and explain that she could help you instead of having someone else do her job, she might take that challenge. There is nothing to harm you in trying, only not trying will harm you. Good luck and just make it what you want it to be.

Answer 7

What kind of help do you think you need? Rehab, while not an ideal situation, is run by people who are trying to help you.

Nobody is going to tell you that cutting is a good thing. It doesn't do any good to tell you not to cut yourself, we need to figure out why.

Bulemia is much better understood by counselors. When you understand why
you are bulemic, it will be much easier to fight it.

I'm not a shrink or a social worker, I'm a grandpa. Take what you need and leave the rest.

Answer 8

You need to seek professional help. Go to your mom and tell her what you just said here. DO NOT be afraid to go to a rehab clinic. They really help. I used to have the same problem and I looked everywhere I could for help other than a clinic. The clinic is what's best. They can help you in ways other places and people can't because they understand what you're going through. You'll also meet other people like you who are going through the same thing. I highly recommend you seek the professional help because it worked for me when I was 17.

Answer 9

Hi sweety I hope u feel better soon but I know how hard it is I would really love to talk to I have one of the same problems i havent told any one either no one listens but u know the people on here have listened and been great IM me and we can talk I'll tell u what has helped me get a lil better hope to hear from u soon


Jake that was so sweet

Answer 10

Yes, someone will help you. Your mother will help you by putting you in rehab. If you're looking for a magic potion to drink to make it all better, that's not coming any time soon. Life is about coping with your problems. You've got self esteem issues that manifest as an eating disorder and self mutilation.

When you look back on this in the future, you're not going to say "Why didn't anyone help me?". You're going to say "How did you all put up with me for so long?"