said dont call me. i love him. he loves me too. he is pure libra .
what will i do? i am very much upset
2006-06-26 17:18:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Time...most people don't stay mad forever..but if you keep pressing the issue he isn't going to have time to calm down..and everytime you call him he is probably going to get more mad at you...
And have you tried saying sorry for what you guys argued about..Sometimes you have to be the bigger person..and sometimes that is ALL that it takes....is an I'm sorry..
Or try to write him a note..It's easier to get all of your feelings out that way and collect your thoughts..and then all you can do is wait..and hope he comes around soon...so you can continue you friendship
2006-06-26 17:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Tamara J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not about "can't live without". You lived without him before. You were born alone. I would suggest finding a way to channel your energies to more positive pursuits. Develop a hobby, spend some time on your own. Being too dependent on anybody for your emotional wellbeing is too much pressure for anybody. If you love this person, respect their decision to have some space. You may be literally choking him.
2006-06-27 00:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know exactly how it goes in Russian but there is an old Russian proverb that goes like this: Choose not a mate by their appearance; rather choose a mate by the maner of their conversation.
But in your situation you have to think of it as a game, and try to figure out your best move.
Hopefully you will someday find someone who is well cultured in the art of communicating, always sensative to your needs, and always looking to learn from you and learn about you.
2006-06-27 00:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by David L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well give him some time. he's upset too that's the reason he said that. don't call him too much ( like 125 calls in one day). just call him
tell him that you are sorry about what happen and you like to renew your friendship with him.
2006-06-27 00:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lee s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Islamic Ruling on Horoscopes
Not only is the practice of astrology Haraam as mentioned in my other articles also, but also visiting an astrologist and listening to his predictions, buying books on astrology or reading one’s horoscope are also forbidden! Since astrology is mainly used for predicting the future, those who practice it are considered fortune-tellers. Consequently, one who seeks his horoscope comes under the ruling contained in the Prophet’s statement: "The Salaah (daily prayer) of whoever approaches a fortune-teller and asks him about anything will not be accepted for forty days and nights." [Reported by Hafsah and collected by Muslim (Sahih Muslim (English Trans.), vol. 4, p. 1211, no. 5440).]
The punishment in this Hadeeth is simply for approaching and asking the astrologist, even if one is in doubt about the truth of his statements. If one is in doubt about the truth or falsehood of astrological information, he is in doubt about whether or not others know the unseen and the future besides Allaah. This is a form of Shirk because Allaah has clearly stated:
"With Him are the keys to the unseen and none knows it except Him" [Soorah al-An`aa,m 6:59]
"Say: None in the heavens or earth knows the unseen except Allaah." [Soorah an-Naml 27:65]
If, however, one believes in the predictions of their horoscope, whether spoken by an astrologist or written in books of astrology, he falls directly into Kufr (disbelief) as stated by the Prophet (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam) "Whoever approaches an oracle or fortune-teller and believes in what he says, has disbelieved in what was revealed to Muhammad." [Reported by Abu Hurayrah and collected by Ahmad and Abu Daawood (Sunan Abu Dawud (English Trans.), vol. 3, p. 1095, no. 3895).]
Like the previous Hadeeth, this Hadeeth literally refers to the fortune-teller but it is just as applicable to the astrologist. Both claim knowledge of the future. The astrologist’s claim is just as opposed to Tawheed as the ordinary fortune-teller. He claims that people’s personalities are determined by the stars, and their future actions and the events of their lives are written in the stars. The ordinary fortune-teller claims that the formation of tea leaves at the bottom of a cup, or lines in a palm tell him the same thing. In both cases individuals claim the ability to read in the physical formation of created objects knowledge of the unseen.
Belief in astrology and the casting of horoscopes are in clear opposition to the letter and spirit of Islaam. It is really the empty soul, which has not tasted real Eemaan (belief) that seeks out these paths. Essentially these paths, represent a vain attempt to escape Qadar (fate). The ignorant believe that if they know what is in store for them tomorrow, they can prepare from today. In that way they may avoid the bad and ensure the good. Yet, Allaah’s messenger was told by Allaah to say: "If I knew the unseen, I would surely have only sought the good. But, I am only a warner and a bearer of glad tidings for believers." [Al-Qur'an Soorah al-A`raaf 7:188]
True Muslims are therefore obliged to stay far away from these areas. Thus, rings, chains, etc., which have the signs of the Zodiac on them should not be worn, even if one does not believe in them. They are part and parcel of a fabricated system which propagates Kufr and should be done away with entirely. No believing Muslim should ask another what his sign is, or attempt to guess his sign. Nor should he or she read horoscope columns in newspapers or listen to them read. And, any Muslim who allows astrological predictions to determine his actions, should seek Allaah’s forgiveness and renew his Islaam.
2006-06-28 09:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by qwertyu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him for some days...he will come back to you..dont worry..guys are like that sometimes...
2006-06-27 00:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Deep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya should send flowers and a piece of your left big toe
2006-06-27 00:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he made it pretty clear..don't call him. sorry but he's over you, if he loved you he would wanna work things out.
2006-06-27 00:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋