my friend has been doing drugs for some time now,i want to help her out,but i don't know how to approach her or maybe tell her parents,but i feel like i am tresspassing in her private life...she is not really a close friend of mine,what should i do? should i keep myself out of this?
2006-06-26 17:09:54 · 15 answers · asked by infinity 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I hope you find the answere to that one First the want for this drug will never go away or at least I don't think it does I have been clean for about a year except for about a week or two I got out of jail and did exactly what I shouldn't have still I want to be clean so I will be from her on out it will take total self control on their part A doctor is the best answere find a doctor ask him and in reality I would like to know what he says still ask him the same way you asked here he will probably tell you she will have to do it her self, but rehab is the first step they will prescribe medicine, yet a person on drugs will think if I am going to get off drugs they won't give me any thing good, where the Psych doc's probably would and if they gave them to a person getting off drug's they want too take them away slowly which is relapse waiting to happen
2006-06-26 17:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a counsellor - whether a guidance person at school, or a priest, or someone else who can be trusted. It is not just that your friend is doing drugs. You have an ethical dilemma which you cannot solve on your own, so look to people who are trained in helping you handle this situation.
2006-06-27 00:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by kerangoumar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't a close friend so if you approach her about this you may start some problems. Do not tell her parents that is invading her privacy. If you do not feel you can tell her your feelings about this then do not put yourself around her. But if you feel like you can talk to her. Ask her why she does it. If she ask you why it's any of her bussiness just explain that you hate to see her do this to herself. She is not going to stop unless she wants to. You can not make her stop you can just voice your opions.
Good luck. It is a hard thing to see your friends do this to themselves. I have had to distance myself from alot of close friends due to their drug abuse. I still talk to them but I do not hang out with them. This may be what you have to do.
2006-06-27 00:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever u do...DO NOT STAY OUT OF IT!!! no matter how good a friend she is...don't stay out of it. drugs r terrible. is this really how u want ur friend 2 die...from drugs? didn't think so...but that's what'll happen if u don't tell her parents. if she doesn't want to be your friend after that...then she never really was a true friend...cuz she should want to be ur friend...after u saved her life. but tell her parents right away...like, get on the phone NOW and tell them!!! good luck - Ciara
2006-06-27 00:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by ciara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to help her out more.Tell her that she's making a really big mistake in her life and at one point she's going to regret that she does drugs.Tell her the dangers of them and how they can affect her health and that she might even die.
Hope everything goes well for her!
2006-06-27 00:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drugs r really bag.....you first talk to her about it ...and try to agree her...If she don't, so, then you tell her parents ! If she is your close friend...I think u should do this !Drugs Will destroy her happy life...u can understand !
2006-06-27 00:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by amitgamer007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can scare her into getting help--I did that with one of my friends and she told her parents and went to rehab.. I did not really mean to do that but if happened and it worked. Email me if you want the details--it is a good one.
2006-06-27 00:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont tell anyone, she can really mess up her life. you should tell her parents or somebody if you really care about her
2006-06-27 00:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by snow_tiger_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her enjoy her life the way she chooses. If she's not hurting you, butt out.
2006-06-27 00:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by cynicusprime 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends
2006-06-27 00:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋